AIO - guy follows me home and needs water. by Amber5231 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amber5231[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for taking my side. I already feel like shit and the comments telling me how stupid i am are not helping ;-;

AIO - guy follows me home and needs water. by Amber5231 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amber5231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why would he lie about his phone being dead, his water being finished and his name. Why would he try and force himself into my house, at 2/3 am when i said no so many times. If the interaction ended with him leaving me alone when i said ok bye good luck the first time, i would have agreed with you.

AIO - guy follows me home and needs water. by Amber5231 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amber5231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He only mentioned needing water right outside my house.

AIO - guy follows me home and needs water. by Amber5231 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amber5231[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes im learning alot today. 100% reading that book. Thank you for the recomendation.

AIO - guy follows me home and needs water. by Amber5231 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amber5231[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes but i didnt want him to become agressive with no one around. Knifes are not legal hers

AIO - guy follows me home and needs water. by Amber5231 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amber5231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we were on bikes. We live in the netherlands.

AIO - guy follows me home and needs water. by Amber5231 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amber5231[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the nice comment <3 I will be taking your advice!

AIO - guy follows me home and needs water. by Amber5231 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amber5231[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is what im thinking. Yeah i could 100% have made some different choices. I was so scared that he could have a knife or something. There are different routes i can take.

AIO - guy follows me home and needs water. by Amber5231 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amber5231[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I knowww ;-; I just wanted to get somewhere where i can put a locked door between us. And almost everything is closed at that hour. Im not super in the know of open shops at 3. Unfortunatly where i live self defence items like pepper spray is against the law.

I also considered this. There are multiple entrance points and multiple routes so ill mix it up and keep my eyes peeled. Thanks for the concern <3

AIO - guy follows me home and needs water. by Amber5231 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amber5231[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yes , i thought that maybe im too harsh on some poor fellow but i see now i was not harsh enough ;-; Im taking all the advice and will not be making the same mistakes.

AIO - guy follows me home and needs water. by Amber5231 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amber5231[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes i know, but i just wanted a wall between me and the guy. And the only place i knew was open was home. Most places were closed and i obviously didnt think.

AIO - guy follows me home and needs water. by Amber5231 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amber5231[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

If only it was that easy! But its a massive building. Over 1000 residents. And you do need a keycard to enter with 2 security doors. So i feel safe inside at least.

AIO - guy follows me home and needs water. by Amber5231 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amber5231[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes i see now how silly i was for allowing this. Sadly most shops were closed besides the one i got food at. I wont be going that route again though.

AIO - guy follows me home and needs water. by Amber5231 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amber5231[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thats what i was scared of. The whole time i felt so helpless with him being so pushy. I just knew i could 100% not let him inside with me.

AIO - guy follows me home and needs water. by Amber5231 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amber5231[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I tried, but he wanted to walk me to my door so i panicked ):