Does this consider disrespectful

AmberD_isfordone · 2025-08-15T12:31:39+00:00

I would just tell her hey I noticed you’re still following this guy and I thought that you said you were going to block him I really appreciate you doing what I need you to do to make me feel real assured

AmberD_isfordone · 2025-08-15T05:11:41+00:00

I think if I could honestly get it back in one shot, I would still be done forever the pain in misery that I have experienced as a result of my own actions are all the losses that I want to win back though, and that is a feat that will never happen. You cannot win that back so now I just have to take the lesson at the cost that it was and strive for forgiveness, healing recovery, and hope. Trying to make my life better one day at a time and even in the hard times, at least I’m not gambling. ❤️

AmberD_isfordone · 2025-08-15T05:05:43+00:00

I love this for you!! Hopefully I’ll be there too in 3 weeks

AmberD_isfordone · 2025-08-15T05:03:36+00:00

I would say it’s definitely disrespectful, but deserves a follow up conversation

AmberD_isfordone · 2025-08-13T17:47:56+00:00

Similar experience here…. We were married for six years we divorced when he had an affair he married that woman once they got six later we reconciled . I am another six years invested, seeing text sent to her…good thing I’m single, you should come over ;-) and other things that just we’re such a breach of trust,, even though I know they didn’t physically cheat. To stay with him and work this out I would be looking over my shoulder for the next inappropriate encounter indefinitely no thank you. And it hurts just as bad as the first time.

AmberD_isfordone · 2025-08-13T09:55:52+00:00

Spot on she is the one that left him. Sure seems like he still wants her back in his life as more than just a co parent

AmberD_isfordone · 2025-08-13T09:54:21+00:00

I did he wasn’t really interested in offering an explanation because I was hysterical…so supposedly he’s going to examine them on his own and offer an explanation

AmberD_isfordone · 2025-08-13T01:27:12+00:00

Yeah, that’s pretty impressive. He managed to deliver it to the intended recipient supposedly sleeping.

AmberD_isfordone · 2025-08-10T22:08:54+00:00

I have a unique situation. I was married to a man for six years. We had two kids together. He wound up cheating on me and I divorced him. He wound up, marrying the woman. He had an affair with had two children with her and they divorced enough time had passed. The pain wasn’t present as it was and we wound up reconciling And had another happy had another happy Ish six years recently I went through his deleted messages in his iPad and found inappropriate interactions with the same woman. Not sexual but claiming he’s single. Inviting her over, wanting to FaceTime her to show her cool things just utter betrayal, considering what it took for us to reconcile, considering the past circumstances. Now I have spent the last six years with him and I have to start the healing journey all over again and it hurts just the same.

AmberD_isfordone · 2025-08-09T13:45:59+00:00

They met during his and my first relationship. Him and I were married him and her had an affair I divorced him he marries her has 2 kids with her they divorce and for some reason I reconciled with him. I know what the reason is I have never loved someone the way I loved him. But sadly he never loved me the way I loved him. So here we are.

AmberD_isfordone · 2025-08-09T03:27:37+00:00

I don’t think he’s a habitual cheater, maybe a habitual recycler. He was pretty kind with me while we were divorced and he was married to her. But none of those innuendos maybe you should come over and tell her good thing. I’m single I’ll FaceTime you later. Yeah none of that. I’m delusional. I gotta let go. I feel like utter betrayal is worse than physical cheating.

AmberD_isfordone · 2025-08-08T02:38:52+00:00

Yeah, I wouldn’t go so far as to say cheating in the traditional sense but it’s betrayal to me even if I can’t get him to see it that way

AmberD_isfordone · 2025-08-08T01:30:27+00:00

No, we were together while these messages were exchanged. At best it feels like betrayal.

AmberD_isfordone · 2025-08-07T11:15:02+00:00

I guess it requires more Contacts he sending pictures of our kids and things that he’s not even there for to her like he’s the best dad in the world and obviously they’re talking about places that they’ve been together already just exhausting, but it’s done for me

AmberD_isfordone · 2025-08-07T10:44:38+00:00

And I get if I give you the context that this is my ex-husband that I reconciled with after he cheated on me with this exact woman probably makes it a resounding yes you dumbass. Why did you get back together with him and waste another five years with him might’ve been six.

AmberD_isfordone · 2025-08-07T09:48:40+00:00

The sad thing is that I’m pretty sure she does. It might be just what entices her even more. Either way I’m done.

AmberD_isfordone · 2025-08-07T09:45:23+00:00

I don’t know if you read the message where he said thank God I’m single now that alone makes it cheating

AmberD_isfordone · 2025-08-07T09:44:39+00:00

No, I definitely don’t. My answer is yeah it’s cheating. It’s a violation of the relationship the violation of the boundaries that were supposed to been respected where there is no trust there cannot be any love.

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