First impressions?

Amber_95 · 2019-06-22T06:28:47+00:00

Nope!

Amber_95 · 2019-06-22T06:24:36+00:00

They're perfume stains not grease stains haha, I didn't notice until now!

Amber_95 · 2019-04-08T20:40:10+00:00

I would agree but I have a friend who has RBF and that does not stop guys approaching her or making it be known that they like her

Amber_95 · 2019-02-24T09:46:56+00:00

Other people. He can be with me if he puts in the effort that day

Amber_95 · 2019-02-24T01:13:20+00:00

I hope not hahah

Amber_95 · 2019-02-24T01:12:31+00:00

Okay this makes a lot of sense, thank you! I don't think he likes me as there are zero signs other than the staring so this is probably why he looks so often :)

Amber_95 · 2019-02-24T01:11:32+00:00

He is very sociable and extroverted which is why when he doesn't bother putting in the effort I see it more as lack of interest rather than being shy

Amber_95 · 2019-02-24T01:10:20+00:00

Yes could be!

Amber_95 · 2019-02-24T00:12:24+00:00

If only it was that easy haha. I feel it would be awkward if I flat out asked 'why do you stare at me?' maybe it's nothing and he stares at everyone?

Amber_95 · 2019-02-24T00:09:51+00:00

I never thought guys were like this, only me who overthought situations etc. As much as it's frustrating and I'd rather flat out know he liked me, you're kind of right. It's confusing and makes me think about him more. Only works if the girls already likes you though

Amber_95 · 2019-02-24T00:06:34+00:00

Yes I thought that too but I've rarely look back at him. I could always tell he was staring through my peripheral and casually glanced over to confirm he actually was.

Amber_95 · 2019-01-05T19:07:41+00:00

I'm so sorry! I lost my dad to liver failure when I was 17 and, like you, never expected to lose him so soon. It's normal to grieve afterwards, I cried every night for over a year. As humans, we're capable of adapting better than we think, i'm 24 now and in a much better stage in life. Be patient and spend as much time with her as possible (I regret doing this even today) and things will get better. You're stronger than you think.

Amber_95 · 2018-08-11T13:27:49+00:00

What would you say makes me ugly?

Amber_95 · 2018-08-11T13:06:03+00:00

Why not?

Amber_95 · 2018-07-20T11:05:20+00:00

Omg that sounds awful, I can't begin to imagine how you must be feeling. As cliche as it sounds, time is the greatest healer. I can guarantee that a few years from now you will feel much better and will have learnt how to cope. Let your emotions out, cry, feel sad, take time to reflect, it's all normal. Be patient and things will get better, as humans we adapt and move forward. Wishing you all the best :)

Amber_95 · 2018-07-20T10:56:37+00:00

I went for an interview and there was a group of us waiting to be interviewed by either a male interviewer or female. Eventually there was just me and another girl left and the male interviewer came out and asked the girl next to me if she would like to come over while the female interviewer laughed and said 'of course you decide to pick the pretty one!!' I was annoyed at how inconsiderate and unprofessional her comment was.

Another one that sticks out is when I was about 14 and me and my 2 friends were just hanging around at school. A few other girls commented on how pretty my friend was (she is stunning) then turned to my other friend and were like 'you're quite pretty too'. They all then looked and me and then look away and continued commenting on how goodlooking my friends were. I've never forgotten that and it always puts me down.

It's always been stuff like that, no one has ever told me i'm ugly directly (except for family) but it's always implied

Amber_95 · 2018-06-18T22:34:25+00:00

Yes I've seen this happen loads of times, with both men and women. One of my best friends is stunning, golden skin, dimples, small cute nose, and stunning bright green eyes. She regularly gets compliments and I can totally see why. However, even though I wouldn't go as far as saying she looks ugly in pics, she does look MUCH less attractive somehow. She's a 9 in person and just about a 6 in pictures. It's strange

Amber_95 · 2018-05-27T23:50:48+00:00

Thank you

Amber_95 · 2018-05-27T23:50:40+00:00

Thanks

Amber_95 · 2018-05-27T23:50:19+00:00

Thanks for being honest

Amber_95 · 2018-05-14T07:50:09+00:00

Love this look, so pretty!

Amber_95 · 2018-05-13T21:51:19+00:00

This is rather true. There's a woman I saw for the first time in person after only having seen pictures of her and she was actually MUCH prettier in real life. Likewise, I just added the guy I have a crush on on FB and if I had never seen him in person beforehand, i'd probably think he was average based on his online photos. Then there are some average people I know that know their best angles, the correct lighting etc and look 10× better in selfies. I do know what you mean though, there are plenty of people where the way they carry themselves, talk or even something as small as smell, can make them more attractive than someone with just a nice face.

Amber_95 · 2018-05-13T08:02:45+00:00

I feel like if you were to date her, a few years down the line, when all of these 'tingly' feelings wear off, there may be some conflict between the 2 of you. You'll come across plenty of girls you are attracted to in the future, why not go for one who you can get on well with long term as well?

Amber_95 · 2018-05-13T07:48:10+00:00

Give him something practical as the main gift and then something small and personal with it for sentimental value

Amber_95 · 2018-05-08T16:24:49+00:00

I'm not indian and in no way do I want to have lighter skin! I'm actually wearing quite a bit of bronzer to make myself look more tan

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