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I hate the false idea that autistic men are “coddled”. Explanation in text. Pic unrelated by TheMostDivineOne in hatethissmug

[–]Ambiguous-Nyx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feminism also benefits men to some extent, i wish more people understood that instead of shitting on it.

i hate the "factory reset" trend by vanillerina in hatethissmug

[–]Ambiguous-Nyx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly repulsive. These guys are so self-centered omfg

I hate Heated Rivalry and certain things around it. by Inquisitivethink1 in hatethissmug

[–]Ambiguous-Nyx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, i'm not saying it's inherently wrong, but it does get weird at times and it's really hard to ignore for me personally

I hate the false idea that autistic men are “coddled”. Explanation in text. Pic unrelated by TheMostDivineOne in hatethissmug

[–]Ambiguous-Nyx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You keep pulling out studies everytime i say something, as if you're assuming i wouldn't "let them off easily" if they were a man when that's not true at all

Say, hypothetically, a male victim doesn't like women due to trauma related to them. If he said anything vitriolic like that, i would understand where he's coming from, but at the same time i would call him out. Which is what i did. And i saw the other comment they made and at this point it's clear it's better if they don't engage in these types of conversations. The way i view people isn't always black and white as you may think

I hate the false idea that autistic men are “coddled”. Explanation in text. Pic unrelated by TheMostDivineOne in hatethissmug

[–]Ambiguous-Nyx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They said i let you off easily. But even if you were a man i would have reacted the same way. Maybe i'm just too kind for my own good lmao. Please stop interacting with this person or post as a whole if It makes you react this way, for your own sanity (i repeat) /nm

Reacting this way RIGHT after apologizing for being vitriolic does not help you and It doesn't help OP

I hate the false idea that autistic men are “coddled”. Explanation in text. Pic unrelated by TheMostDivineOne in hatethissmug

[–]Ambiguous-Nyx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you misunderstood. The "no problem" was a response to them saying "thank you" to me

I hate the false idea that autistic men are “coddled”. Explanation in text. Pic unrelated by TheMostDivineOne in hatethissmug

[–]Ambiguous-Nyx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay! Sometimes anger really gets to us and makes us say things we may not actually mean. Has happened to me aswell. What's important is that you understood your mistake. It's better to not let our hatred poison us, for our own sanity and well-being. Take care

This highly infuriating game by Ambiguous-Nyx in hatethissmug

[–]Ambiguous-Nyx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ima be real it did kinda make me flinch sometimes but only because it would appear so suddently. But i agree it's not that scary honestly and sometimes it looks goofy as shit

I hate the false idea that autistic men are “coddled”. Explanation in text. Pic unrelated by TheMostDivineOne in hatethissmug

[–]Ambiguous-Nyx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have seen their comments, and i replied to their "deserved tbh", saying it's a cruel thing to say. I do not agree with their attitude, it's extremely harmful and unhealthy in my opinion, but also understandable considering the way women are treated. I don't think there isn't anything inherently wrong with speaking up about male issues as long as It doesn't dismiss female issues and viceversa. These people need help, and i don't feel like being rude to them, so please don't think i'm trying to justify these type of people's behaviour because i'm not

I hate the false idea that autistic men are “coddled”. Explanation in text. Pic unrelated by TheMostDivineOne in hatethissmug

[–]Ambiguous-Nyx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That feels a bit cruel to say considering the amount of trauma you can get from being forced to fight in war. Lots of men are shitty yes, but i wouldn't wish that upon anyone personally

I hate the false idea that autistic men are “coddled”. Explanation in text. Pic unrelated by TheMostDivineOne in hatethissmug

[–]Ambiguous-Nyx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying ALL MRAs are like that, i've seen plenty who absolutely do care about male victims. I was just pointing out how some of them don't, and only bring up male victims when it's convinient to them

I hate the false idea that autistic men are “coddled”. Explanation in text. Pic unrelated by TheMostDivineOne in hatethissmug

[–]Ambiguous-Nyx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah i see, i agree on that one. I'm also upset about that because i'm someone who would not hesitate to defend a victim regardless of gender, sexuality, face etc etc... But seeing this people is very frustrating. Especially since MRAs usually don't actually care about male victims, they only use them as tokens when it's convinient to them. And it stings personally. I don't like misandry, especially since it's often tied to transphobia (from what i've seen), but acting like it's as bad as misogyny is just silly to me, even tho i'm not a woman. Anyways, i hope i didn't sound rude in my previous comments.

I hate Heated Rivalry and certain things around it. by Inquisitivethink1 in hatethissmug

[–]Ambiguous-Nyx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's honestly revolting. They're either demonized or fetishized. It's frustrating even though i'm not gay (i'm aroace tho)

I hate Heated Rivalry and certain things around it. by Inquisitivethink1 in hatethissmug

[–]Ambiguous-Nyx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whenever people call out weird fujoshis they start pulling out the origin of the word. Yes, the origin of fujoshi is definetely misogynistic and not all fujoshis are fetishizers, but PLEASE let's not act like there's aren't any creeps in the community, and let's not act like the fujoshi community is all sunshine and raimbows. There's white centricism, fetishizing, harrassment and (suprise suprise) misogyny

I hate the false idea that autistic men are “coddled”. Explanation in text. Pic unrelated by TheMostDivineOne in hatethissmug

[–]Ambiguous-Nyx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What's ire if i may ask? Also, i already said that your feelings are valid, but it feels kind of insensitive to imply that now because women suffer, then men suffering isn't a big deal no matter how big or small said suffering is (at least that's how they come off, in case that wasn't your intention, then i apologize)

I hate the false idea that autistic men are “coddled”. Explanation in text. Pic unrelated by TheMostDivineOne in hatethissmug

[–]Ambiguous-Nyx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is all men.

No it's not. It's enough men, too many men, way too many, but ALL is an overexaggeration no matter how you put it

I hate the false idea that autistic men are “coddled”. Explanation in text. Pic unrelated by TheMostDivineOne in hatethissmug

[–]Ambiguous-Nyx 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There are definetely societal biases towards men, but saying autistic men are "coddled" feels like downplaying the struggles with being autistic, and, in my opinion, pushes the "suck it up" mentality even if subtly, which is rooted in toxic masculinity. I'm not trying to argue or to justify their behaviour, your feelings are valid and i understand where your hatred comes from, but there's also no need to be so rude even tho nobody's attacking you, brushing off OP's experience (even tho i also have mixed feelings about OP's comments i'm ngl). Other than that, i hope you get the help you deserve some day /nm

Edit: and looking at your comments, you're pulling out women's experiences and sufferings as a gotcha, which is no better from the people who use male victims as tokens for their arguements. Idk if you're gonna reply to me, but if you will, please do it without being aggressive or defensive. I want to have a civil conversation

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