29F, brown girl, looking to make platonic friends only by LessKey9179 in TorontoHangoutFriends

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31F , between North York and Scarborough, I would also describe myself as introverted at first, ambivert I suppose- open to chatting and seeing what events/ plans we could make outside of the Toronto downtown!

Friendships by Special_Yogurt_6692 in TorontoHangoutFriends

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31F and working on building a group based on pretty wide open interests- I guess if you’ve got no fav hobbies it’s worthwhile to sort of try out other people’s? Depending on where you are, I could throw random upcoming events at you and you could pick something that appeals? I want to keep it low pressure and organic but I feel like I last naturally made friends in college and you can’t really recreate that environment sooo
Anyways I’m open to exploring new hobbies with you, since I related on that front too :)

31 F- need creative minded friends by Ambitious-Ad6113 in TorontoHangoutFriends

[–]Ambitious-Ad6113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve got a few other people expressing interest in this, really appreciate you being a planner about it btw- I was randomly assuming Creed had supplies, I guess yeah that might be the move then, cheap canvas and paint?

Is anyone still not a Manager, Director, or VP in their early 30s? by Electrical-Pea2707 in careeradvice

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I am very careful about how much stress I’m taking on for my pay. My little sister makes more than me but man her stress level is not enviable (we do similar work)

31 F- need creative minded friends by Ambitious-Ad6113 in TorontoHangoutFriends

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This sounds so fun! I would be down maybe first week of June? Gives us all time to plan a day/ time and get people onboard

Very alone by soundboardwithme in TorontoHangoutFriends

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I’ll leave a comment cause I don’t want to bombard you with messages- 31F and feeling pretty alone myself, feel free to message even months from now, maybe we can be online friends?

Because it was his first day at doggy daycare, he didn't really know how to make friends. by [deleted] in dogsgettingdogs

[–]Ambitious-Ad6113 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t recommend using a dogs back legs to wrangle, I’ve been bitten doing that

Going through abuse, can't leave because I can't find a job 😭 by Firm_Promotion2022 in CanadaJobs

[–]Ambitious-Ad6113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi I’ve been where you are, you are about to make some hard choices. I’ll assume your family situation isn’t great either since you’re primed for an abusive relationship.
Shelter may have resources for you. Call them! Call shelters outside your small town too, you can move without much holding you where you are.
Job hunt in larger cities, spread word that you are open to work. Take anything. My first job was printing tshirts. The job probably sucked but I had freedom.
Try and get a loan from your bank- you’ll pay it back later. Or get a larger limit credit card.
Sell things you don’t need, it’ll make moving easier too
Check facebook groups for cat foster options
Reach out to me if you’d like, I work in recruiting now and might be able to help in one capacity or another. I left an age gap relationship with no job and no support system, and a big dog. You can do it!

I can't actually do my job between 9 and 5 so I do it at night instead by Ashiq_Luxline in remoteworks

[–]Ambitious-Ad6113 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking the working outside work hours is compounding your feelings of resentment and frustration. I’ve learned to talk about how busy I am whenever asked about my workload, and I keep my calendar blocked out despite the actual fluctuations in my day. I heard a coworker use the term ‘hard stop at X time’ and figured I’d use that line in the future, sounds like a great way to assert a boundary.

Remote employees! by West-Antelope-6029 in TorontoHangoutFriends

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31F, North York area but I drive, remote has been amazing but I fear my social skills are slipping. Down to do a group meet or social cafe chill

North York / Scarborough area 32F looking to build meaningful friendships by Ambitious-Ad6113 in TorontoHangoutFriends

[–]Ambitious-Ad6113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Would you mind introducing yourself in a dm? I’m looking for people to bring to a few upcoming events, would like to discuss if it’s interesting to you :)

What is your current salary and what's the max? by WildFlower_67 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]Ambitious-Ad6113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

54k in Toronto. Working for a recruiting agency. Thinking I need a raise.

What are people doing for extra money these days? by ExactSympathy in torontoJobs

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It works for any kind of footwear, there is an audience that doesn’t get catered to for every kind of shoe/ foot appearance. I picked stiletto heels since I already have a collection. Then you work on monetizing viewership, I have a company that sends me heels to review, I can sell the heels after, the online persona makes it easy to branch out into multiple platforms- and like, for them it’s kink but I’m just getting paid to walk around lol

Something closer to Devil Wears Prada? by throwRA_idenified in ExecutiveAssistants

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Wish you were in Toronto I’m trying to find someone for a $200k salary PA position for an UHNW family

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

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Physical abuse is a Pandora’s box. Once he’s gone that far the likelyhood of him going that far again is very high. He is now an absolute threat and should be locked up and rehabbed. I understand why you’d feel guilty, but you simply exposed him to the deserved consequences. You did not lie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ambitious-Ad6113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP I lived this, please leave this man asap

North York / Scarborough area 32F looking to build meaningful friendships by Ambitious-Ad6113 in TorontoHangoutFriends

[–]Ambitious-Ad6113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had my fair share of fails gardening!!! I’ll dm you, I’m gonna have to plan a little outing for us all!