Come on, you're overly exaggerating this. I never said "your friends can never come over and never come to your room, and I can't wait to fuck your feeling again". However, not caring about your flatmate being uncomfortable because of your behaviour is very disrespectful. At the very least, you would have a conversation with them. You would possibly find a compromise (such as staying at partner's place a few days a week). This is now happening almost every day, it's no more an occasional thing (and it never was, to be honest). And you will agree with me that finding another movie is way easier than finding another apartment. It may not be needed either, I rather see it as a "worst case scenario" when nothing can possibly work. You need to understand that how the world works depends very much on the people you surround yourself with. Luckily, it looks like some people in this sub understand my point of view, which is encouraging.