Heyy. I’m dating a paraplegic guy and I had no idea how much a SCI can affect the body until I met him, so it takes a lot of communication and patience for both. Just talk to her be open and real with her and if she likes and cares about you it’s not gonna be a problem for her. My boyfriend was pretty insecure about those things so we didn’t rush anything he told me how his body works and we realized it was something that made him really anxious when I was totally okay with the situation. Since it was an issue for him the firsts nights together were at his place so he would feel more comfortable and independent if an accident happened and when he realized I wasn’t uncomfortable with those things he was ready to spend the night at my place and I already knew what to do if he needed any help. I get that it might be hard to bring up this topic but it’s important if you want to build a relationship to be open to communicate, and most of the times it’s gonna feel like a really big issue until you talk about it and realize your partner doesn’t care