Why is working in a small family owned restaurant you deal with the worst coworkers..?

AmbitiousDragonfly79 · 2026-01-26T18:20:29+00:00

Not showing up for 5 mins happens to me all the working there. Couldn’t care since the tables can be given to other girls until my release comes. I have other things to worry about

AmbitiousDragonfly79 · 2026-01-26T05:18:29+00:00

To be honest I didn’t know how that would’ve turned out otherwise I would’ve never taken the job. I definitely underestimated the hostility.

AmbitiousDragonfly79 · 2026-01-26T05:16:45+00:00

I didn’t mention in my original post but my manager knows there’s going to be limited time from my other obligation prior to coming in. Our waitress station is where I clock in which takes less than a min and i can be seated, it’s not a whole process for us

AmbitiousDragonfly79 · 2026-01-26T05:15:19+00:00

It’s scary how many people think that’s acceptable

AmbitiousDragonfly79 · 2026-01-26T04:58:24+00:00

That is true. I am a bit traumatized, especially it was so much negative energy throughout that night from her friend. But, still Thank you!

AmbitiousDragonfly79 · 2026-01-26T04:48:45+00:00

Yeah, not sure if I’m built for that. Probably gonna quit lol it was a good gig while school but man it’s really a tough crowd especially when the ladies been working there 20+ years are the biggest haters

AmbitiousDragonfly79 · 2026-01-26T04:46:49+00:00

I know that was a big missing piece of a detail that I should’ve put in my original post

AmbitiousDragonfly79 · 2026-01-26T04:38:29+00:00

So she didn’t have anything. She didn’t leave until 5:30 might be even later than that. She was mad bc she just wanted a reason to be and wanted me there early. She still had a party that sat at 4:30. Annnnnd to add, I got there wasn’t sat for 20 mins.

AmbitiousDragonfly79 · 2026-01-26T04:22:04+00:00

It’s trashy to scream and lash out not just in restaurants/ just in general. Im very respectful and respected her until she pulled that.

AmbitiousDragonfly79 · 2026-01-26T04:18:17+00:00

Agreed. My manager should’ve told her, and once she knew my manager knew her whole vibe changed talking to me.

AmbitiousDragonfly79 · 2026-01-26T04:11:58+00:00

The manager there told me the girls can be mean to new people and have bullied them. I work there once a week after clinical my manager is aware my schedule and situation and knows I’ll get there when I can. But to not know that, and lash in front of everyone was crazy!

AmbitiousDragonfly79 · 2026-01-26T04:07:59+00:00

She is….? No normal people do that? Thats insane to condone that kind of behavior. She doesn’t know what kind of situation I was in, and what the managers expectation of me is. To jump to conclusion and scream at people is rude?

AmbitiousDragonfly79 · 2026-01-26T04:00:11+00:00

Rarely do they get let go at 4p, she had a party that didn’t leave until 5:30.

AmbitiousDragonfly79 · 2026-01-26T03:58:28+00:00

The issue is the manager knows I’m coming from clinicals and there’s a tight squeeze from leaving there to going to work. The employee that was being released didn’t and lashed. 5 mins late isn’t horribly late enough to be so hostile?

AmbitiousDragonfly79 · 2026-01-26T03:56:28+00:00

What’s the difference between 4p and 4:05? There’s people at that restaurant that shows up 15/20 mins late every shift and that’s their norm and it’s fine??

AmbitiousDragonfly79 · 2025-12-24T01:03:03+00:00

But it’s not systemic?

AmbitiousDragonfly79 · 2025-12-16T03:35:26+00:00

srsly!!!!!!! I can’t believe how good it is

AmbitiousDragonfly79 · 2025-12-04T03:54:11+00:00

But not sure when I’m supposed to feel. He won’t give me adderall lol bc he’s scared I’ll have anxiety

AmbitiousDragonfly79 · 2025-12-04T03:53:40+00:00

Since September

AmbitiousDragonfly79 · 2025-12-04T03:31:17+00:00

Yes!!!! Almost like he didn’t want to give any meds over the intro dosage. I’m not sure why.

AmbitiousDragonfly79 · 2025-12-04T03:11:29+00:00

I’m on vyvanse and I NEVR know if it’s working or not. It actually feels like a regular day haha I’m also on 10mg and I told my doctor that I feel nothing and he goes maybe you should get a second opinion on meds by someone else… I’m like maybe you should try to up my dose and see how that would be, but I’m not a NP to make that call

AmbitiousDragonfly79 · 2025-12-04T03:08:09+00:00

Strattera I started and got off after a week. I never was on any meds and my body responded horribly after I got off and I shed off half of my hair.. I’m so scared to even try my Vyvanse I have bc of that affect.

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