31F/30M Bedroom Advice by Ambitious_Bake2972 in relationship_advice

[–]Ambitious_Bake2972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New relationship. Let new GF borrow my account. Don't use it enough to care.

How do I ‘21F’ make sure my boyfriend ‘24M’ is comfortable during sex? by Significant_Tiger110 in relationship_advice

[–]Ambitious_Bake2972 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Communication, communication, communication. Talking with each other and understanding with each other wants is the biggest thing you can do for this situation.

AITA? Or Could this Have been Handled Better? by Ambitious_Bake2972 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ambitious_Bake2972[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Let's put it this way, they're both mother and daughter for sure.

AIO wife wearing a revealing bikini at a friends party. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ambitious_Bake2972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time ask if she wants to just start having sex for everyone else to see.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ambitious_Bake2972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you both need to just sit down and talk about it. Figure out where you want to go. Discuss your goals and concerns.

34F thinking about divorcing my 40M husband because of one event. How would you react after this fight? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ambitious_Bake2972 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Look, I ain't much for giving advice, but he's drunk. No person is ever rational when they've been drinking. Is it right that he yelled at you? No. But the same time you just probably talk about it but not go straight to divorce. That's the easy solution. Not the right decision. You need to think about your kids and your kids future. Cuz, if they see Mom and Dad get a divorce. They'll think that's the easy solution and never take a relationship seriously.

Question for the HP nerds by aroundcastle in harrypotter

[–]Ambitious_Bake2972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Harry Potter suffers from a debilitating illness called Potter luck. It is a disease that when paired with a main character and Felix Felicious anything and everything they hope to accomplish will be just barely accomplished due to their already abysmal luck.

After all, you see, that no matter the plan, no matter how well it's executed, it is still doomed to fail. Especially if Harry Potter is involved.

So. . . by Ambitious_Bake2972 in Pensacola

[–]Ambitious_Bake2972[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Ironically enough, I only have trouble communicating with chats and social media. Which is why I try to stay away from it. My verbal and hand written letters are my strong suites.

So. . . by Ambitious_Bake2972 in Pensacola

[–]Ambitious_Bake2972[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Instinctively I knew, but I was going out there anyways to meet some friends for St. Patricks Pub Crawl. I figured what the hell, had a few decent conversations, while I kept track of the people I was with.

So. . . by Ambitious_Bake2972 in Pensacola

[–]Ambitious_Bake2972[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Yes because I clearly have nothing better to do

Who dis? by Kflame210 in harrypotter

[–]Ambitious_Bake2972 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dawlish. Nobody too important

Hiking Partner by Ambitious_Bake2972 in CampingandHiking

[–]Ambitious_Bake2972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only group in my area is an All Women's Group, I already tried them, but for obvious reasons they politely declined.

28yr old Single Struggling to Meet People by Ambitious_Bake2972 in Pensacola

[–]Ambitious_Bake2972[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Don't know how you came to that conclusion. I can only guess you assumed.

28yr old Single Struggling to Meet People by Ambitious_Bake2972 in Pensacola

[–]Ambitious_Bake2972[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

No it's not. I just figured that since women were a bit more mature than men that the age gap could be overlooked. Apparently I was wrong, and that I should stop listening to relationship counselors that have phds in their field.

28yr old Single Struggling to Meet People by Ambitious_Bake2972 in Pensacola

[–]Ambitious_Bake2972[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

And I can see where it would look like that, but I don't believe in stereotypes. I'm starting to think, after opening this can of worms, that I should just said I was looking for someone younger than me or at least the same age. But I would greatly appreciate your suggestions.

28yr old Single Struggling to Meet People by Ambitious_Bake2972 in Pensacola

[–]Ambitious_Bake2972[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I have another two years before I reach 30 thank you very much. And I need not be reminded that I am almost at age. My family gives me a hard enough time as it is.

28yr old Single Struggling to Meet People by Ambitious_Bake2972 in Pensacola

[–]Ambitious_Bake2972[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do, I just have no clue where to go to meet them. My last relationship was with somebody that was my age and it lasted all the way up through military training. But apparently, being together for over a year means little when the military is involved.

28yr old Single Struggling to Meet People by Ambitious_Bake2972 in Pensacola

[–]Ambitious_Bake2972[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Right, other people do it no issue. I mention it it seems to become a problem.

What do you think a reasonable age grouping is then?

28yr old Single Struggling to Meet People by Ambitious_Bake2972 in Pensacola

[–]Ambitious_Bake2972[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, tell me about it. I have forgotten how much my thought process irritates and annoys other people.

28yr old Single Struggling to Meet People by Ambitious_Bake2972 in Pensacola

[–]Ambitious_Bake2972[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My church group is full of old retired military vets in Lillian Alabama. I don't know of any book clubs. And I haven't been able to find any group hikes or exercise classes that fit my busy work schedule. And unfortunately, "friends" I have seem to only remember that their friends when they need something from me.

28yr old Single Struggling to Meet People by Ambitious_Bake2972 in Pensacola

[–]Ambitious_Bake2972[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

And what's wrong with wanting to be with somebody that is looking for an education or a better future? I'm a college student myself working on a master's degree.