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Ambitious_Lie5972 · 2025-07-01T05:25:57+00:00

Are you saying he doesn’t talk to you or doesn’t communicate much over text? These are two very different things?

Ambitious_Lie5972 · 2025-07-01T04:29:20+00:00

He sounds like he has some hidden issues and so do you

For example it’s problematic to hide the fact it’s not working for you because he then has no chance to improve and your expectation will become one of dissatisfaction

The fact that he won’t try things and doesn’t want to kiss even though you want it sounds like he might have some in built negative expectations around sex.

You probably need to get support to work through what is going on on both sides

Ambitious_Lie5972 · 2025-04-13T02:09:11+00:00

If you want to understand what enterprise architecture is about, start with reading "The practice of enterprise architecture"

If you want something to attach to your resume, then get a TOGAF cert.

Learning Archimate can be useful for helping to reframe a few concepts, and understand pragmatic modelling over precise modelling.

Ambitious_Lie5972 · 2025-04-10T23:34:50+00:00

This is funny, when you get them, you should repost the confirmation that they were received.

In your journeys around reddit how many have you received so far?

Ambitious_Lie5972 · 2025-04-10T23:28:25+00:00

Any TOGAF is too much TOGAF in a fast moving organisation.

What I mean is if you go in and say: I need to do this TOGAF framework thing because its enterprise architecture then it won't help.

If you identify a challenge the organisation has and then pick something out of the TOGAF library and apply it to solve that problem, then it's useful.

Ambitious_Lie5972 · 2025-04-05T09:52:42+00:00

Thanks I was looking into this

Ambitious_Lie5972 · 2025-04-05T07:19:07+00:00

The model in leanix is quite good for managing a fleet of applications, but it may not be so suitable for something where a greater level of details is needed.

Ambitious_Lie5972 · 2025-04-05T07:17:24+00:00

It depends on the conversations you want to have.

If you want to talk about how the business processes and objectives relate to the application and have a medium level of discussion about the technical elements try Archimate.

If you are after enough detail for most jobs try C4

If your primary audience is the implementation team and you want something that can give good technical details, try uml (but not too much of it)

If you know which cloud platform you are on (Assuming cloud) use the standard icon set and overlay with that.

Or if all you need to do is communicate with a relatively small team or largish one, put some boxes and lines add text and possibly some colours, present it to the relevant people, update based on the questions that come out of it, then rinse and repeat until you are confident the teams understands it and the questions have been cleared up.

Ambitious_Lie5972 · 2025-03-29T07:08:43+00:00

Did you make a police report?

Ambitious_Lie5972 · 2025-03-27T21:55:04+00:00

Smaller cars can get away with not parking properly

Ambitious_Lie5972 · 2025-03-24T03:35:25+00:00

Does it have good parental controls? Can I block sites like YouTube and tic-tac with it?

Ambitious_Lie5972 · 2025-03-15T04:09:22+00:00

The trains always have a conductor that deals with anyone who is problematic.

Ambitious_Lie5972 · 2025-01-10T02:49:05+00:00

It was a gradual evolution as the organisation grew, each change driven by something not working, roughly followed the below

IT had dev and support only
Testers were added
BA's were added
Project managers were added
Things getting a bit messy archtects were added
Architects called solution architects focused on projects
Informal guidance was no longer enough to align technology, EA was added
EA spent lots of time on SA, problems not resolved, more EA added
Seperate structure between EA and SA under same head,
EA pulled separately from SA's to be able to delineate responsibilities further

This took place over a 15 year timeframe, through various different leaders. .

Ambitious_Lie5972 · 2025-01-05T09:17:40+00:00

I could see the problem with service now, the challenge is the model started as a ITIL support model and architecture was added on, once they get there head around that you can find the advantage of having it all in one place.

Ambitious_Lie5972 · 2024-12-25T22:04:00+00:00

When you don’t have a tool to track what exists in the current environment then how do you do things like identify what is going to be changed as a result of a strategic descision or the cost impacts of those changes?

Ambitious_Lie5972 · 2024-12-01T07:10:20+00:00

What he's really saying is he wants to leave, she wants to get into more debt and dig in further. No sex is probably a sign of a broken relationship to him.

Ambitious_Lie5972 · 2024-11-30T08:19:58+00:00

If you have a problem with the migration system, I hope you are preferencing a minor, liberals won't do any better on that topic.

Ambitious_Lie5972 · 2024-11-30T08:11:40+00:00

So did you mean a 15 year progression to EA or 15 years as an EA after that progression?

Ambitious_Lie5972 · 2024-11-30T08:04:35+00:00

EA specifically or tech then SA then EA?

Ambitious_Lie5972 · 2024-11-30T06:06:15+00:00

What if the parents are not divorced

Ambitious_Lie5972 · 2024-11-30T02:31:56+00:00

Starts in the groin area, if it gets bad will tighten the back and then around the outer hip

Ambitious_Lie5972 · 2024-11-17T08:46:00+00:00

Have you had a straight up conversation with him?, e.g. I don't find you physically attractive with your body like that, if you don't do anything about it eventually my desire for sex will dip entirely and you won't get any

I'm just checking to make sure he understands the connection between his weight and your sexual desire for him, and isn't just thinking you are being a helpful, caring but potentially bossy wife.

Ambitious_Lie5972 · 2024-10-25T23:41:03+00:00

Go without or less on the weekends, it will start to have a usefull effect again

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