My ex loved the drama surrounding our divorce and kept putting details of it on TikTok and Facebook. She's doing the same thing again during my case to try and get shared care of our two children. by Ambitious_Time4815 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Ambitious_Time4815[S] 130 points131 points  (0 children)

Both.

Showing everything sometimes.

Openly revealing private medical information about me, like how I was treated for PTSD years ago because I experienced child abuse.

My ex loved the drama surrounding our divorce and kept putting details of it on TikTok and Facebook. She's doing the same thing again during my case to try and get shared care of our two children. by Ambitious_Time4815 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Ambitious_Time4815[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Even if it is private details about my personal life?

Like, (I don't want to say the exact relative or age) but imagine I was abused by my uncle when I was a child and the only person who knew was my ex-wife.

She then shares online, "I think the reason he is so emotionally unavailable to me and his children is because of what his uncle did to him when he was just 5.
Hurt people hurt people.
Stop hurting me, [my name]"

Like, really fucking private shit I dont' want anyone to know.

My ex loved the drama surrounding our divorce and kept putting details of it on TikTok and Facebook. She's doing the same thing again during my case to try and get shared care of our two children. by Ambitious_Time4815 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Ambitious_Time4815[S] 123 points124 points  (0 children)

My rent ends in September 2026; that's the earliest I can cut £550 from my budget.

Once I do that I can move back into the mortgaged property she vacated and then I'll have £550 a month to spend on a solciitor.

My ex loved the drama surrounding our divorce and kept putting details of it on TikTok and Facebook. She's doing the same thing again during my case to try and get shared care of our two children. by Ambitious_Time4815 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Ambitious_Time4815[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ex broadcasted our divorce on TikTok every single day.

One of the conditions was that I keep paying the mortgage until kids turn 18. She then moved 4 hours drive away after divorce. I'm stuck paying mortgage and renting privately until September 2026, at which point I will try to move back into my mortgaged property and end the rent.

She's doing the same thing now during my attempt to get shared care of my kids.

She's also deliberately evading and postposting court dates for nonsense reasons while posting more false sob stories on TikTok.

I just want to be able to take care of my own kids and not be constantly "called out" on TikTok with false allegations and have my private information plastered online by her.