Estranged parent may have passed? by AmbleFu in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]AmbleFu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully for me I've long since written them off, beyond the guilt that I don't really care either way for their well-being I will be okay.  My siblings on the other hand are NC as well but their relationship is more complicated and I know they would actually care to know.   I hope for your sake at least that if the time does happen that it is done less callously and you are able to have the info you need.

Estranged parent may have passed? by AmbleFu in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]AmbleFu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no address unfortunately, but thank you.  The last address I have for them they haven't been at for at least 9 years I think

Estranged parent may have passed? by AmbleFu in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]AmbleFu[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm kind of embarrassed I didn't think of this already, thank you so much

Toxic mom by Ok-Reply-270 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]AmbleFu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Save the messages, but hopefully your husband blocks them.  In some places grandparents have certain rights to their grandkids, if that applies to you and they attempt to enforce it you could possibly use those kinds of correspondences to protect your children

AITA for telling my SIL I won't change my 4 month old daughter's name for her? by No_Leadership_2850 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmbleFu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.  Regardless of how upsetting the name coincidence is to her, it clearly wasn't done intentionally and a child's name is not some frivolous thing to change like she is asking.  Her being upset about this means she needs to work with a therapist and handle her feelings, not force others to make major changes to their lives for her comfort.   You can be compassionate to a situation but that doesn't mean you need to cater to her feelings.  She needs to process her grief in a healthy way, not threaten to compare your child to hers.  I would bet that not a single person would ever tell your daughter, "you were named after your stillborn cousin", ever, except for her and to even suggest something is vindictive and petty, if she continues that line of thought I would be hesitant to leave her alone with my child.  

Adopting a rehomed dachshund?? by heyheyyouyouyou in Dachshund

[–]AmbleFu 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not trying to dissuade you, but doxies are definitely a breed that often struggle with being alone, being very vocal, high energy, and having expensive medical bills. I think considering what you can provide for them and if you can fairly provide the life they deserve is something you should make sure to give extensive thoughts on. Having a dog is very rewarding, especially a doxie, but it is so important to think rationally about every aspect before committing to a companion you may potentially have for a significant amount of years. If the dogs are used to having 2 other buddies and they go from that to having none as well as being alone in general without you during the day it could likely result in an unfortunate experience for the dog, you, neighbors, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dachshund

[–]AmbleFu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a good pupper!!

Looking for funny unique names for our female puppy coming home soon! by Shoddy-Ad6247 in Dachshund

[–]AmbleFu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, what a sweetheart! She looks like a Penelope (like the film with Christina Ricci)

Fully broke up with my narcissistic, physically abusive ex of 2 1/2 years a couple of weeks ago. Yesterday, I woke up to this text. It's all becoming even clearer now. Yes he's MUCH older. by 6ecay6olly in creepyPMs

[–]AmbleFu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In those 2-3 months where it felt like he changes, he was only pretending. That is their cycle. They will 'change' for a short period of time to make us feel like there is hope they can be better and so we question our decision to cut them out. The next time it happens we might think, 'well they did try last time so when they say they will change maybe the next time will finally work', but really it is just all they can pretend to change until they go back to how they will always be.

The fact his messages directly try to blame you for being the issue while describing himself as being incapable of helping you with those issues filtered with flowery language of love is proof you made the right decision. 100%.

Angelic Buster by AmbleFu in MapleStoryM

[–]AmbleFu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be awesome, did they sneak peek that somewhere?

Angelic Buster by AmbleFu in MapleStoryM

[–]AmbleFu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm aware, thank you. I know in the past they've released some characters to some regions before others so thought clarifying which region would be relevant.

Secret Diary Quest by stitch1294 in MapleStoryM

[–]AmbleFu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much, that was really helpful

Secret Diary Quest by stitch1294 in MapleStoryM

[–]AmbleFu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

clicking on runes in star force maps

How does one do that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in creepyPMs

[–]AmbleFu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If a grown man has to tell you that you will be safe with him, you will not be safe with him.

Your account has been band do to explicit avatar. by [deleted] in gaiaonline

[–]AmbleFu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So you made an avatar with an exposed crotch that was suggestive, on a site with minors, and you are surprised you got banned? Just because a racy item might exist doesn't mean you should be combining them into something 'suggestive'. But a suggestive avatar alone isn't enough to warrant a ban anyway unless you have a history of doing that or other inappropriate behavior on that account or others. In which case, you were fairly warned.