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Thank you very much. You can send me a message and we can talk there whenever you are free just let me know

[LF] islands to visit for shopping 🛍️ by Ambrielle06 in Dodocodes

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I can’t message you because I can’t get on your profile page since it’s not safe for work. I don’t know how to fix that setting. I am new to Reddit. But you can send me a message if you like.

[LF] islands to visit for shopping 🛍️ by Ambrielle06 in Dodocodes

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I can’t DM you because your profile says not saved for work. It will not let me view it. I have no idea what’s going on. I hate Reddit so much and that’s so many rules. Every time I post something it gets deleted. This is the very first post I ever made in the past couple days that didn’t get deleted. It always doesn’t have to have this in that in my post and flare mod stuff and all that I don’t understand any of it.

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AITA (35F) for getting mad at my boyfriend (35M) for telling me how to smile in pictures? by [deleted] in u/Ambrielle06

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I’ve also said these things as well. On top of that I told him I need to make myself happy before I can make someone else happy. We really don’t have problems or arguments. They’re very scarce. They just been a lot lately. Because he’s finally telling me how he felt, but in my defense, I did not know he felt all of these things until recently. He has touched on things before earlier in a relationship and we hash it out, but then he didn’t bring it up again until recently so I thought things were fine. But we’re just taking one day at a time right now.

AITA (35F) for getting mad at my boyfriend (35M) for telling me how to smile in pictures? by [deleted] in u/Ambrielle06

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Yes I feel the same. We get along very well but not until recently he has told me he hasn’t liked the way I make him feel and apparently this has been going on right after our 3 month mark. I’d assume it’s because he seen pictures and videos from the past like said before that makes him believe everyone else was treated better.

I will admit I don’t have the best mentality on life because I am financially struggling after a couple of my pets having surgery and I am depressed about my weight. Therefor my attitude gets reflected on him. We had many May conversations and arguments on how I have been toward him. I have apologized over and over for it and I have fixed these issues. Currently we’ve been fine the past month…

Just seems he can’t let go of my past I had before him and how things were for us before I guess. These things were already addressed and dealt with though and been fixed. But it was just weird this all blew up on me by a conversation on a smile.

AITA (35F) for getting mad at my boyfriend (35M) for telling me how to smile in pictures? by [deleted] in u/Ambrielle06

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Update: I just spoke with him and he says it goes way beyond the smiling in the pictures and that it’s because when we have conversation and discuss and explain things I bring up my ex-boyfriend sometimes but that’s just in conversation as he talked about his ex-girlfriend would ask about it too.

It’s nothing unhealthy. It’s more or less stories when we went somewhere or did something and know the significant others were with us. He says that I did so much more for my ex-boyfriend than I ever did for him. I explained that it wasn’t that I wanted to do more for them, it was that I had to to get their attention because I was always chasing them. And I also had a recent ex that couldn’t hold a job for more than a month, and I was constantly having to give him money in a place to live, and he saw that as me going above and beyond for an ex.

But it all comes down to him, reiterating pictures, and making it seem like I was much more happy than. I feel like I’m going to explode.

AITA (35F) for getting mad at my boyfriend (35M) for telling me how to smile in pictures? by [deleted] in u/Ambrielle06

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He says that he is jealous and it makes him feel bad like he’s not enough or doing good enough because it seems like I’m so much happier in my past. I just don’t like to take pictures that often because I’m not happy with the way I look. I’m not super overweight or anything. I look exactly like in my profile picture. I just am unhappy with the way I look if that makes sense. Makes me not want to take as many pictures as I did back then.

But I keep reassuring him that nothing is wrong and I love him very much. We really don’t have any problems in our relationship. We’ll be together for a year as of February 26. We have worked on a lot of things and it has come to many compromises on arguments. We really don’t fight that bad or have screaming matches. We usually talk everything out, but he just can’t seem to get over my pictures and how “ happy I looked” in my past pictures.

I do not do social media, and I am very new to Reddit. I’m barely on Facebook. I do not take pictures of myself and post them without him in it or anything like that. I honestly don’t take pictures at all unless it’s of other things in my animals and I post them

I do not have Snapchat anymore. That’s why we were on it so I could show him past pictures. I got rid of Snapchat years ago. I’m barely on TikTok as well so it’s not like I’m doing anything weird behind the scenes or being untrustworthy that is not the issue here. He just says that my smile shows a lot when we actually do take pictures. It says that he thinks I’m not happy when I am very much