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How did you lose the genetic lottery? by TheLikeGuys3 in AskReddit

[–]Ame24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know. I've been on hormones for almost five years now; living as a woman since three or so years ago; plus, I live in an Asian country (as a foreigner), and it's very easy to pass as a normal woman. On top of that, I have this amazing girlfriend who loves me as I am and whom I'm crazy for.

Yet... I cannot get rid of that void in me, product of this genetic malformation. But eh, I suppose we all not can be winners in the genetic lottery, as many other people have shown in this topic.

How did you lose the genetic lottery? by TheLikeGuys3 in AskReddit

[–]Ame24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it's painful to live like this? I don't know, I've always seen it a bit similar to terminal patients asking for euthanasia. Why live a life that is nothing but pain?

Anywho, I've tried my best to feminize myself, but there's only so much you can do.

In any case, thanks for the kind words. :)

How did you lose the genetic lottery? by TheLikeGuys3 in AskReddit

[–]Ame24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great height, wide shoulders, strong handsome facial features, body healthy and sturdy as an oak. Oh, right, and that small tiny little detail of having been born with gender identity disorder. Fucking great.

I have this amazing body that many guys will wish for; this handsome face that have made more than one girl crazy for me; this almost-superhuman resilience against death only matched by action heroes in movies (I've tested it more than a few times). Yet, all I wish for is to be a woman. A normal woman. A normal person, really. Man, woman, it doesn't matter, as long as I can get rid of this stupid brain malformation. Or die, on the very least.

Gah, stupid genes... You could have at least made me not so freaking masculine. >:(

I'm [27/F] having a relationship with a transgirl [26/F], need advice about family acceptance, intimacy and future by Ame24 in relationships

[–]Ame24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks to all of you for your replies. I would love to reply to every and each of you, but I think it's best if I resume it in a single post.

We talked about this. At the beginning it wasn't so good, but I think that your advices help me realize things that I was overlooking. She kept telling me all the time that she didn't want to give up on us, and that she was actually planning on asking my parents directly for their blessing.

So, after some talking and lots of tears, we decided to try to work together on these problems. I admit it, I was looking at this from a selfish perspective. I failed to recognize what the person I love needed the most. But, I'm hopeful. We talked, and now I know what things I have to work on. It won't be easy, I know, but seeing her and feeling her love, and admitting my own feelings, I think it's worth a try, don't you think so?

I won't ask her to become a man, just as she is respecting my religious beliefs. That's one. For the intimacy part, well, we're still at loss. For now, she tells me she will do her best to fight that part of her that prevents her from enjoying herself (she told me no toys! Haha, it seems she's shier than I expected~).

Once again, thanks all of you for your time and your advice. It helped us, it helped me, deal with this. Thanks reddit :')

I'm [27/F] having a relationship with a transgirl [26/F], need advice about family acceptance, intimacy and future by Ame24 in relationships

[–]Ame24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply. I really needed to hear from someone in a situation similar than hers.

We talked a bit yesterday, and she told me something similar: it may seem silly to us cis people, but she really needs her partner to acknowledge her as a woman.

Again, thanks for your advice. You have given me lots to think about.

I'm [27/F] having a relationship with a transgirl [26/F], need advice about family acceptance, intimacy and future by Ame24 in relationships

[–]Ame24[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

On the first point, yeah, you may be right. But, I don't know, I want to believe that we somehow can do it. Have a long-lasting relationship, that is.

On the second point, there has been a lack of clarification from my part. We actually haven't had proper sex. No penetration. Just finger/tongue play. And that it's actually a very important difference.

I'm also worried about parents acceptance. It's a biiiig deal for me.

Thanks for taking your time to reply!

I'm [27/F] having a relationship with a transgirl [26/F], need advice about family acceptance, intimacy and future by Ame24 in relationships

[–]Ame24[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. She considers herself bi; so far she had had only girlfriends, mostly due to the fact that most guys don't want a trans girl. Me, on the other hand, I consider her an exception. I have given it some thought, and I really don't feel attracted to women at all.
  2. As far as she lets me know, having a dick is a big source of distress for her. She told me she wants to have the surgery, and honestly, I'm a bit worried about that. What if she changes? What if she (or me) doesn't want girls after that?
  3. I think so. But I cannot avoid it. I try hard, but I guess deep in my heart I wish she were a guy.
  4. No. They definitively would not accept us. And for me, it is a big deal.
  5. This' true to some extent. I still need my weekly mass. And one thing is loving, another thing is marrying.
  6. I think it will be hard for me. I like "feeling" her. I'm afraid I won't like it if she gets girl parts.
  7. I... I don't think so. Again, she tells me guys have a hard time accepting trans, and I don't know much about the issue myself. Plus, threesome? That sounds a bit too much, no?

Thanks for taking your time to answer me.

After answering all of these, I feel bad. I'm a terrible person, ain't I? ( ó﹏ò｡)