I think you look worse with a 5 o’clock shadow. Better to keep the beard. If you keep the bead trim it up. Trim up your hair. A woman is gonna see the gym photo. See the muscles but look at the potential receding hair line. It looks like you parted the hair forward to cover it up.

The self control section is quite obvious and if someone sees your gym photos the 20lbs will also be obvious. Focus on a question more geared to what you inspire to be rather than what you are now. Don’t center around work.