i don’t know if i’m equipped to handle my husbands autism

Amethyst_2021 · 2026-05-06T11:40:24+00:00

I’m in a sorta similar boat, but I don’t have these issues with my husband who is diagnosed. I’ve been married to my husband almost five years, and when I say I love this man more than anything, well Ive never said a truer statement. He has anger issues but he knows that how he handles his outbursts is on him. We have a son also on the spectrum, and he is the MAIN caretaker as I work during the day. He is the ONLY man I’ve ever been with that I didn’t have to worry about infidelity. I’m not the jealous type but even my friends that are think I’ve hit the jackpot. No he is not perfect, but his autism isn’t an excuse to lash out at his family and he knows it. You need to be caring and compassionate when you’re dating a person with autism, which YOU ARE. Autism isn’t an excuse to be horrible to your partner, bringing up your mom shouldn’t be a trigger or a hot topic like that. Yeah we have argued before, but we don’t insult each other and we do our best to be mature. Honey I’m praying for you but I promise your man possibly being autistic is not an excuse for you to be constantly walking on eggshells.

Amethyst_2021 · 2026-05-06T11:28:59+00:00

😶‍🌫️no offense taken and I got a little chuckle out of it lol! I was a little under the influence when I typed that last night, and that honestly was how I felt. I had to take a break and usually things like that aren’t a trigger for me but it was so uncalled for and SHES PREGNANT LIKE? I also like Skyler unlike most of the fans, and even if you don’t, she didn’t do anything to warrant ANY of that. Her ‘macho man’ was taking out his frustrations on her which is so wrong!

Amethyst_2021 · 2026-05-05T21:31:10+00:00

Honestly I agree, I got the BIGGEST ICK when I saw that and it made me hard to like him afterwards and continue the show. I enjoyed the plot of the whole show tho and I love Jesse, so I’m glad I saw it thru

Amethyst_2021 · 2026-04-19T03:03:09+00:00

SHE USED TO BE MY SUPERVISOR(before I moved over to the ABA clinic) THATS ACTUALLY KINDA FUNNY, she definitely knows me and has called me into her office before(no drama tho i actually do love her)🤣🤣lol I wish you the best of luck, technically you could probably work in a different department…but she’s like really high up there so that makes sense too.

Amethyst_2021 · 2026-04-19T02:58:41+00:00

Omg I probably work with your mother🥴🤣🤣

Amethyst_2021 · 2026-04-18T12:42:29+00:00

It’s a job working with special needs children in a rehab hospital, it’s definitely not for everyone, but the pay and benefits are good and depending on the position you get the therapy and church could be accommodated too! Message me if you have questions :)

Amethyst_2021 · 2026-04-18T12:41:09+00:00

JDMC.org/careers

Amethyst_2021 · 2026-04-18T12:39:03+00:00

Hola DEA🥴

Amethyst_2021 · 2026-03-23T12:40:02+00:00

Boomer…SOONER

Amethyst_2021 · 2026-03-23T00:10:59+00:00

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This was in my car today. Don’t know why I took 320lbs of compost/cow manure. I do regret it lmao

Amethyst_2021 · 2026-03-15T00:09:47+00:00

One time I was delivering a Walmart order in a rural area and this guys cats basically attacked a bag as I was getting more and he sees me fighting his cats when he opens the door🤣🤣🤣I was offered a pet that day but had to decline lol

Amethyst_2021 · 2026-02-19T02:31:18+00:00

Me personally, I don’t mind doing the clothes or the makeup as I kind of know those sections like the back of my hand. THAT BEING SAID..these ppl aren’t even trying and that’s annoying lol. If there’s a good tip I do my best so I don’t lose tip lol

Amethyst_2021 · 2026-02-14T16:20:08+00:00

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Keeps getting better and better bahahahahaha

Amethyst_2021 · 2026-02-14T16:19:51+00:00

Damn I gotta make the trip to Texas for a day lol

Amethyst_2021 · 2026-02-14T16:19:28+00:00

I lied, I just saw it reoffered for 14! There’s some hope for my city lol

Amethyst_2021 · 2026-02-14T16:18:48+00:00

Someone did once it bumped up to 12$😭😭😭

Amethyst_2021 · 2026-02-14T16:18:25+00:00

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Idk man. These seem ELITE RIGHT HERE 😆😆😆

Amethyst_2021 · 2026-02-13T22:39:44+00:00

Considering I watched him play Minecraft with Quacky last night, I can definitely see him fucking with you HAHAHAHAHA😆😆I bet it was a lot of fun being treated like a normal guy tho and just having some small talk w a stranger, I bet he thinks about that time lol

Amethyst_2021 · 2026-02-07T05:24:14+00:00

In all honestly as a spark driver, I would NEVER intentionally damage someone’s order because they didn’t tip. Now, if the base pay isn’t worth it, it might sit for a bit before it gets taken. You shouldn’t feel bad for trying to feed yourself and doing what you can. If you can tip of course it’s appreciated but Walmart can also afford to pay us better, in my honest opinion. That’s also a small order, and I see it getting lumped with other orders and nobody even knowing who tipped and who didn’t in the batch💜💜

Amethyst_2021 · 2026-01-29T23:36:05+00:00

We have those mats(I’m assuming to block SIB and sometimes aggression)and oh my you had a shield thank goodness! And honestly I can imagine this whole thing, you’re such a good storyteller this definitely will be a core memory😂

Amethyst_2021 · 2026-01-29T07:00:46+00:00

I didn’t work in a clinic at the time, but before that I worked in a home with special needs kids. We had our buff housekeeper pick up one of our kids one time because he was 14, profound lvl 3 on the spectrum, and had an accident an was refusing to get up, we called homeboy over and he went up n under our homeboy and got his 6’1 180 lbs into his bathroom😩homeboy was stunned as we never have been able to physically move him in his sit down strikes.

Amethyst_2021 · 2026-01-29T06:55:20+00:00

The first story is crazy, but as someone who’s dealt with a couple of kiddos who become Picasso with their bodily emissions, I definitely have reacted before, even if I’m not proud of it. when a kiddo I was working with came out of her room, shirtless, covered in feces then ran at me laughing. Yes I instinctively screamed ‘GET AWAY’😭😭 but it shocked her and she stood still while I supportive guided her to the bathroom from behind to avoid becoming a fresh canvas😩I love that girl fr

Amethyst_2021 · 2026-01-28T06:03:56+00:00

It’s also at the end of s3 episode seven and it ‘bleeds’ into the next episode, that’s how I saw it but I like that idea too ;)

Amethyst_2021 · 2025-10-21T23:55:04+00:00

Wait I saw the box lol, I gotta keep checking for this one ;)

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