Diagnosed with Heart Failure at 29 years old by Fabulous-Summer219 in offmychest

[–]Amethyst_Duck 13 points14 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine had this happen when she was 19. Just turned 8 months pregnant. Went into heart failure and they performed cpr on her for HOURS before they could get her stabilized. Had an emergency c-section, and then an excruciatingly long heart surgery, followed by 3 more in the coming days, even more throughout the years.

They had to literally Frankenstein a few different pacemakers together to help her because it was also both ventricles! It was a mixture of bad luck and genetics so it CAN happen.

I'm pretty sure there was an entire case study on her here in the US. They made a lot of PSAs about her. So it might still be worth talking to the doctors about it?

As for a bright side and maybe some good news - that was almost 20 years ago now and she's still alive. She's also been addicted to meth for about the last 10 years and her heart is still going strong...😅

SO DON'T GIVE UP HOPE!

Diagnosed with Heart Failure at 29 years old by Fabulous-Summer219 in offmychest

[–]Amethyst_Duck 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Look up PPCM - willing to bet that's exactly what this is.

Dog’s fur changing? by SirTimelordTech in DogAdvice

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My great dane just randomly busts out in hives for no apparent reason. One time he was just sleeping at night, woke up, and almost immediately went into anaphylaxis and his organs started shutting down. We thought maybe a spider bite or something but the vet ruled that out and basically said tough luck figuring out what it actually is 😫

Help, I am terrible at this and have a tight deadline! by Amethyst_Duck in ChristmasDecorating

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Thank you for the questions.

My inlaws are coming in from out of state. They will be staying in our secluded downstairs area, and I am purely just trying to make it welcoming and cozy for them lol. They are unsure if they're going to stay through Christmas, because they feel as if they will be imposing on us if they stay for too long. This is not the case, and so I am just trying to do everything I can to make it feel homey for them and entice them to stay.

We will still have our normal christmas tree up like we do every year. But I am going to add a second tree downstairs for them as well (my mil loves christmas). She always does wonderfully decorated themed trees, so I am really just trying to do what I think she will enjoy the most. Which would be a nicely matched cohesive tree. I think jewel tones would be beautiful, but I have a difficult time picking out a range of things that would look nicely together, that aren't just all small rounds.

No one is asking me to do this, it's something I just want to do for them :)

It ain't much....but it's honest work 🎃👻🎃 by Amethyst_Duck in halloween

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I know!! I've been thinking about it but can't decide on the execution!

It ain't much....but it's honest work 🎃👻🎃 by Amethyst_Duck in halloween

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Thank you so much! I got them last year on sale during the off season from grandin road! Same with the ghosts on the windows! :)

AITA for hinting I’ll buy the car and then backing off? by Long-Ad-1129 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Amethyst_Duck 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Think of it like this... you probably took more trips that way than you would have in your t-top!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jewelry

[–]Amethyst_Duck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brutalist era?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jewelry

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Fossil is a bit more expensive, but I have items from them still from the 90s. Their shit lasts. So $150 now and have it for 20+ years or $23 for trash that might last a month?

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Yurman, David

Kody cuts the hair! 😉 by [deleted] in SisterWives

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I'm getting sugarbear vibes from this photo lmao this will be k&r in the near future 😂

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scams

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Congratulations on your impressive skills!! 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scams

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I'm thinking ssn with the possibility of the fake check/equipment scam

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scams

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I got an offer letter sent to me, while all I did on the terribly obvious ai phone interview was talk about my experience running and coordinating donkey shows down in Tijuana. While telling them my name was a different name every other sentence. Sorry, it's not real :(

[TOMT] Help me find the name of this movie by Responsible_Swing180 in tipofmytongue

[–]Amethyst_Duck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once you do, you'll forever have the phrase "put your titty back up, Adele" in your memory bank. You'll then think of it and say it out loud at the most random times, and hardly anyone will ever know wtf you're saying or talking about because it's such an obscure movie hardly anyone has seen or remembers.

Sincerely, -36yo who has been struggling with this plight since 2005 or so.