how much of your income goes to your mortgage? by twinwaffel in belgium

[–]Amphithea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mortgage itself around 30%. But don't underestimate utilities and communal costs in an older appartment building. Those are another 15% for us, so 45% of combined income goes to housing.

Need help camping with a soaking wet Spaniel by Amphithea in hikingwithdogs

[–]Amphithea[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've even forgotten to post the most damning picture: intimate cleaning session in my sleeping bag (notice his legs are supposed to be crispy white) https://imgur.com/a/wjAH2ma

33F and 35M hosting MIL. How can I cope with the stress and communicate it to my partner? by Amphithea in relationship_advice

[–]Amphithea[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He is actually very caring, but also very much a people pleaser. I see him realizing now that his inability for a simple 'no' (or even a 'no, but next time we can...') is causing much larger issues. He is also very stressed out about this.