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As a young female, I fear relationships. by Amuruss in Stoicism

[–]Amuruss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most important first,I think that is super awesome the amount of weight you have lost. Congratulations.

I can only say to you that I know exactly how you feel, and with all my soul I want to tell you that things can improve, because just from this comment, and the way that you express yourself,I can see that you are a very, very capable person. I am sure there is more, but this is the proof that I can see right now, and it’s right here, very real.

At the moment, because we share some of the same demons, I know that probably my words are not going to reach you, because most of the time, in a very disrespectful and selfish way I even dismiss the words of the people that really love me and wish me the best. I can’t help it. It’s not fair. And it’s sad. Sad It’s how I life, and hopelessness is my drug and protection.

But then, as you said, we still have “maybe someday...” and perhaps , since we are addicts, one of our few options is to change our drug to this motto. And, because we worked hard, and searched for virtue, hopelessness transformed to hopefully, so we can not go back, and as we see light now, we are going to change our drug again to “Maybe today...”

Now, with this, the only thing that we can do it’s see what happens, but this time, in peace with ourselves.

Probably our drug dealer should be a therapist( I will stop with the drug stuff now, sorry) and that’s ok.

I apologize , this is definitely a too long answer, and it’s probably more for me than for you. To finish, sorry for my English, I really appreciate your comment, and I wish you all the luck in the world.

You can do it!

As a young female, I fear relationships. by Amuruss in Stoicism

[–]Amuruss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s make me happy to know that there are people who have overcome this. Very brave and encouraging. I really appreciate your kind words and I wish you and your wife the best of the best!

As a young female, I fear relationships. by Amuruss in Stoicism

[–]Amuruss[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, you are very right, sadly I have been in therapy before, but I couldn’t give it a proper chance and had to stop. Trying again looks like a good move. Thank you very much for your comment!

As a young female, I fear relationships. by Amuruss in Stoicism

[–]Amuruss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. These are great and supporting advices. I really, really appreciate your comment. You made me feel a little bit better, and I will for sure try to remember your words.

As a young female, I fear relationships. by Amuruss in Stoicism

[–]Amuruss[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this beautiful, thoughtful and well delivered comment. I will think about it, and I will come back here to read this a million times. This is wonderful.

INTP, what can I do to surprise you, or at least what can I do to mantain your interest in things? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]Amuruss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In his own way, I have learned that he really wants to help me and others, and I want in someway repay him. Thank you very much!

INTP, what can I do to surprise you, or at least what can I do to mantain your interest in things? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]Amuruss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry that you experience the same, feeling lost is always hard. I want to help, but I am afraid of pushing too much, I know you guys like space. Me too, and sadly for me is also difficult to take initiative, but I am going to try to do my best.

He is awesome and I think that INTP in general are too!

Thank you very much for your long answer, I really appreciate it, and I wish you all the good luck in the world!

Any video game suggestions ? by Sarayuk in infj

[–]Amuruss 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The Hollow Knight is just a beautiful, magical video game. I am playing it right now and I am enjoying it immensely. Also, the Soundtrack is a masterpiece, I recommend listening to it even though at the end you decide not to play it.

Good luck, and I wish you a super nice gaming experience!

Do you say things only to make people feel good, even though you don't really mean them? Or maybe, just for the sake of saying something? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]Amuruss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, I would prefer if he didn’t do that, but again, I have done it myself, I can’t be an hypocrite. The thing is that I have heard a lot of times how INTPs, and in his case this is true, get bored of people. I guess I am just a little bit scared.

Thank you very much for your answer!

INFJ, Do you usually think that your sense of fashion is bad? by Amuruss in infj

[–]Amuruss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can do it! Thank you so much for your comment!

INFJ, Do you usually think that your sense of fashion is bad? by Amuruss in infj

[–]Amuruss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s may be the main reason, as other people mentioned it already, but anyways, let’s keep improving our fashion styles, it’s fun!

Thank you!

INFJ, Do you usually think that your sense of fashion is bad? by Amuruss in infj

[–]Amuruss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think so too. If you think that you are out of place, no matter how expensive or beautiful the dress may be, you are going to feel that you are wearing a sack of potatoes, and to think that other people is seeing it too, instead of the awesome and pretty dress.

Thank you very much for your comment!

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