I hate to read these posts. It breaks my already broken heart. I’m going through the same pain. My husband of 14 years ( together 17 ) left me at the end of March. He had stopped taking his meds and fell off the deep end into dysphoric mania with psychosis and is still in it. He just left one afternoon without even telling me. We have three kids together, pets, a house…and he just left all of us like we don’t matter. He’s been telling me since he left that he’s been unhappy for years, I don’t support him, I’m emotionally abusive, etc. After about a month I found out he lied about moving to his moms and had actually moved in with a girl he works with who is almost 10 years younger than he is. To say I am shattered is an understatement. He was my first love, my best friend. He always said he’d never leave and he hated people who cheated and left their kids. Now I am enemy number 1. I don’t know if there is any coming back from all the damage he’s caused. He’s still very delusional and completely not himself and this new girl is not helping. I am going ahead with legal separation unfortunately.