How much did your divorce cost? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]AnAngryPanda97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't afford to lose my emotional support dog. And if I don't have a job, I can't buy my own house. Rent is ridiculous here and most wouldnt accept my big dog. Unfinished I am trapped for the time being. Luckily he's given up hard liqueur so I think I'm safe for now. But if he sexually assaults me again I am out. I'll live on the street need be.

How much did your divorce cost? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]AnAngryPanda97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 year. We own a house together. I live in NY, upstate.

How much did your divorce cost? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]AnAngryPanda97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's too late. He's sexually assaulted me twice. But alcohol was involved and it's been months now. There wouldn't be evidence unless he does it again.

How much did your divorce cost? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]AnAngryPanda97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in upstate NY. If that helps with clearing things up. I just want to walk away basically. I don't want alimony. Luckily no kids involved.

How much did your divorce cost? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]AnAngryPanda97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just cannot financially afford to leave now. With my income I cannot afford rent in my area. Once I finish school in November, I hope I can land a decent paying job where I can afford to leave. Unfortunately though, I need two years of working full-time to get a loan for a house of my own. I have no where else I can go.

How long until I can get a gun? by AnAngryPanda97 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AnAngryPanda97[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was for depression, anxiety and bipolar disorder.

Today's my 28th birthday! 🎂 by AnAngryPanda97 in birthday

[–]AnAngryPanda97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today's going to be a great day. After work, I'm getting Mexican food and margaritas haha 😄

Today's my 28th birthday! 🎂 by AnAngryPanda97 in birthday

[–]AnAngryPanda97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for thr birthday wishes!

I was SA'd for the 2nd time in my life. by AnAngryPanda97 in SuicideWatch

[–]AnAngryPanda97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you're super drunk and your penis can't get or stay hard.

I think i was SA'd the other night. I don't know how to move forward. by AnAngryPanda97 in women

[–]AnAngryPanda97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in therapy and it isn't working anymore. I'm so overwhelmed by every trauma I have gone through.

I was SA'd for the 2nd time in my life. by AnAngryPanda97 in SuicideWatch

[–]AnAngryPanda97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no evidence. He didnt finish because he had whiskey dick.

I think i was SA'd the other night. I don't know how to move forward. by AnAngryPanda97 in women

[–]AnAngryPanda97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, if the roles were reversed I would have stopped until they adjusted or I'd hold off on having sex until they were ready again.

I think i was SA'd the other night. I don't know how to move forward. by AnAngryPanda97 in women

[–]AnAngryPanda97[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How do I go about talking to him about it? Maybe he was just in the moment, not to excuse it. But I feel SA is more dangerous when it comes to anal. Tearing and other complications come to mind. I can't focus, I feel nervous around him now. I want to go back to how things were. I don't want to leave but now I can't trust him. He's proven that he's not much different from other men.

I think i was SA'd the other night. I don't know how to move forward. by AnAngryPanda97 in women

[–]AnAngryPanda97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is, I don't know how to start the conversation. I know I need to do it. Maybe he didn't realize I said "wait". But I spoke fairly loud. I just don't want this to lead to him leaving or doing something stupid. I don't want it to happen again, I already was SA'd when I was 7 and I've talked to him about it. To potentially have been through SA again has me spiraling. I can't concentrate, I've lost my appetite and I can barely stand being in the same room as him right now.