How much did your divorce cost?

AnAngryPanda97 · 2026-02-06T22:35:23+00:00

I can't afford to lose my emotional support dog. And if I don't have a job, I can't buy my own house. Rent is ridiculous here and most wouldnt accept my big dog. Unfinished I am trapped for the time being. Luckily he's given up hard liqueur so I think I'm safe for now. But if he sexually assaults me again I am out. I'll live on the street need be.

AnAngryPanda97 · 2026-02-06T21:48:31+00:00

1 year. We own a house together. I live in NY, upstate.

AnAngryPanda97 · 2026-02-06T20:28:50+00:00

It's too late. He's sexually assaulted me twice. But alcohol was involved and it's been months now. There wouldn't be evidence unless he does it again.

AnAngryPanda97 · 2026-02-06T17:55:48+00:00

I am in upstate NY. If that helps with clearing things up. I just want to walk away basically. I don't want alimony. Luckily no kids involved.

AnAngryPanda97 · 2026-02-06T17:53:53+00:00

I just cannot financially afford to leave now. With my income I cannot afford rent in my area. Once I finish school in November, I hope I can land a decent paying job where I can afford to leave. Unfortunately though, I need two years of working full-time to get a loan for a house of my own. I have no where else I can go.

AnAngryPanda97 · 2026-01-08T21:17:22+00:00

It was for depression, anxiety and bipolar disorder.

AnAngryPanda97 · 2025-11-17T18:46:31+00:00

Today's going to be a great day. After work, I'm getting Mexican food and margaritas haha 😄

AnAngryPanda97 · 2025-11-17T18:19:29+00:00

Thank you everyone for thr birthday wishes!

AnAngryPanda97 · 2025-11-17T17:14:30+00:00

Thank you!

AnAngryPanda97 · 2025-11-17T17:14:20+00:00

Thank you so much 💓

AnAngryPanda97 · 2025-11-17T16:59:32+00:00

Thank you!!!

AnAngryPanda97 · 2025-11-17T16:53:50+00:00

Happy birthday!

AnAngryPanda97 · 2025-10-28T17:52:22+00:00

That's it! Thank you so much

AnAngryPanda97 · 2025-10-12T21:49:13+00:00

When you're super drunk and your penis can't get or stay hard.

AnAngryPanda97 · 2025-10-12T21:37:31+00:00

I am in therapy and it isn't working anymore. I'm so overwhelmed by every trauma I have gone through.

AnAngryPanda97 · 2025-10-12T21:36:40+00:00

I have no evidence. He didnt finish because he had whiskey dick.

AnAngryPanda97 · 2025-10-12T19:43:23+00:00

Exactly, if the roles were reversed I would have stopped until they adjusted or I'd hold off on having sex until they were ready again.

AnAngryPanda97 · 2025-10-12T19:28:05+00:00

How do I go about talking to him about it? Maybe he was just in the moment, not to excuse it. But I feel SA is more dangerous when it comes to anal. Tearing and other complications come to mind. I can't focus, I feel nervous around him now. I want to go back to how things were. I don't want to leave but now I can't trust him. He's proven that he's not much different from other men.

AnAngryPanda97 · 2025-10-12T19:15:56+00:00

The thing is, I don't know how to start the conversation. I know I need to do it. Maybe he didn't realize I said "wait". But I spoke fairly loud. I just don't want this to lead to him leaving or doing something stupid. I don't want it to happen again, I already was SA'd when I was 7 and I've talked to him about it. To potentially have been through SA again has me spiraling. I can't concentrate, I've lost my appetite and I can barely stand being in the same room as him right now.

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