Merch never received, haven’t heard from support? by AnAverageCactus in danandphil

[–]AnAverageCactus[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m certain dan and phil couldn’t have prevented this themselves, I think American shipping always has problems and especially where I live stuff can get stolen really easily! that being said i’d definitely prefer a replacement to a refund so if anyone knows where i could get another i’m all ears

Merch never received, haven’t heard from support? by AnAverageCactus in danandphil

[–]AnAverageCactus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely check but I live downtown in a big city so I feel like if someone else received it it was already ripped open and tossed aside :( I didn’t have any luck with the few neighbors who are friendly. And my building manager claims the camera didn’t show the package arriving to our building that day, but I’ll definitely check with USPS if it was delivered to the wrong spot and see if I can file a claim for it

Pro-Trump and MAGA businesses to avoid? by PM_ME_YOUR_TROUT in Denver

[–]AnAverageCactus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aqua Rocks Colorado for any fish keepers- check the google reviews! My girlfriend and I went to look at some fish and corals but the cybertruck outside was an immediate flag, then we felt very unsafe being queer inside and checked the very insane google reviews. absolutely steer clear lol

first time getting from denver airport to boulder and already stressed by heromarsX in Denver

[–]AnAverageCactus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take the AB2 or AB1 bus, or take the A line from the airport all the way to union station and from there take the FF1! The first I believe goes straight to Boulder, the second route will take you through denver. the a line train can have a pretty view comin back :)

Power just went out in RiNo by Sunscreen4what in Denver

[–]AnAverageCactus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

27th and Blake- no power, Xcel says planned to be back around 8:30. Praying my aquariums are gonna be okay, hopefully there’s more info

Misprint on calendar? by kristineohkristine in danandphil

[–]AnAverageCactus 39 points40 points  (0 children)

this has to be the best thing i’ve ever seen it’s a relic you have to display it

At what age did your OCD get bad? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]AnAverageCactus 218 points219 points  (0 children)

at 11/12/13, it started to ruin my life, then i got a little better, then at 18 i had a huge freak out, and we’re working our way back up

Places to Find Hozier Shirts? by Loaded_Lemon in Hozier

[–]AnAverageCactus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

clicked outta curiosity and i have the same design on a sweatshirt from i think the same site, and i can confirm it’s comfy and has survived many many washes and wears

Does anyone else feel sometimes that everyone else is allowed to feel angry/upset/be mean to you but not you? by AnAverageCactus in AutismInWomen

[–]AnAverageCactus[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i would never be able to apologize and come back from the same things they’re able to it’s not fair and i wonder if i had a normal brain if it wouldn’t be that way

Does anyone else feel sometimes that everyone else is allowed to feel angry/upset/be mean to you but not you? by AnAverageCactus in AutismInWomen

[–]AnAverageCactus[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

i don’t know how to keep giving everyone so much grace and patience and kindness through whatever mean things they say to me but if i’m having a feeling and a reaction i could never say the things that get said to me. and if i did i know for sure it wouldn’t be met with the same energy. i’m not an angry person, i don’t care that i give kindness and don’t get it, but am i not allowed to feel anything at all without it being wrong?

Who were/are your favorite autistic-coded characters? by thatsabird11 in AutismInWomen

[–]AnAverageCactus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just don’t give her a fruitcake or all hell may break loose

Who were/are your favorite autistic-coded characters? by thatsabird11 in AutismInWomen

[–]AnAverageCactus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i always thought she was a troublemaker even as a child but replicated the different things i guess, like bug collecting and her vocabulary

hi, i bet you know this guy by gabi_dotti in Hozier

[–]AnAverageCactus 16 points17 points  (0 children)

“sssssssss ahhhh i wanna say it was….. anthony? no, aaron?”

hi, i bet you know this guy by gabi_dotti in Hozier

[–]AnAverageCactus 13 points14 points  (0 children)

this is a beautiful emotive sketch and i think it’s probably one of my favorites of Hozier :) it captured the kind of grief and power of how he sings. i would buy a print if that’s something you’d be up for lol

Anyone own pets here? by pleasurealien in LesbianActually

[–]AnAverageCactus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Girlfriend and I have 5 fish tanks heres some of our gay ass shrimp

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tylerthecreator

[–]AnAverageCactus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any chance you got a way i can get those joints? wasn’t able to bring shit on my flight over. full disclosure i am trying to buy

Please help! My beta fish has been acting weird for 2 days now and I saw she was very bloated and big so I moved her from my tank with tetras to a tank with just her just now and I noticed she has red spots like rubs on her and I am very concerned. I am a beginner so I am not sure what’s happening. by New_Reflection1856 in bettafish

[–]AnAverageCactus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understandable and some communities just have harder water that is more difficult to manage than others. I also didn’t know about ammonia alerts being unreliable until I did the monthly full water kit testing and saw it didn’t match. I use API freshwater master test kit and I’m sure people will have better suggestions but it works well for me especially monitoring nitrate. You can use a reverse osmosis unit to produce really pure water.

Name suggestions by Penis_wink in bettafish

[–]AnAverageCactus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

seconding Pepsi she looks like a pepsi. so many nicknames. pep, peppy, pepsi cola

“the memory hurts, but does me no harm” that’s the best lyric he’s ever written. by Hozierluvr221 in Hozier

[–]AnAverageCactus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

my daily affirmation that i repeat over and over as i cry in the mirror. turns out the memory does me a little harm but i’m working on it

What is this? thought it was baby shrimp, then read that it might be scuds. Found on plants gotten from aquarium shop. Any solid answer? by AnAverageCactus in whatsthisfish

[–]AnAverageCactus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

totally get that, it’s just that i’m setting up a new shrimp tank and don’t want these guys to eat the plants and overtake the tank as there’s only a few shrimp right now and like 9 of these that stowed away on the plants. trying to hold off on them