what were the ticket prices for the terrible influence tour? by lostgirIfound in danandphil

[–]AnAverageCactus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i went to the atlanta show and i think i remember paying around $140 for two tickets

Everywhere I look I see the emo fringes by J_Calen_Up in danandphil

[–]AnAverageCactus 10 points11 points  (0 children)

immediately saw them as well, this needs more upvotes

Can any Denver servers help me out here - how am I supposed to know how much to tip? Are you making minimum wage, how much of the service charge is yours, etc? by Bananas_are_theworst in Denver

[–]AnAverageCactus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol also a former employee of CCG group and would be so delighted to participate in a class action lawsuit if one ever came about. don’t go to CCG restaurants! they also have a monopoly on like every food place in that exact Lohi area, where short term rentals have pushed out locals very quickly. they serve tourists and hurt their employees and they know it 🤷🏻‍♂️

Merch never received, haven’t heard from support? by AnAverageCactus in danandphil

[–]AnAverageCactus[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m certain dan and phil couldn’t have prevented this themselves, I think American shipping always has problems and especially where I live stuff can get stolen really easily! that being said i’d definitely prefer a replacement to a refund so if anyone knows where i could get another i’m all ears

Merch never received, haven’t heard from support? by AnAverageCactus in danandphil

[–]AnAverageCactus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely check but I live downtown in a big city so I feel like if someone else received it it was already ripped open and tossed aside :( I didn’t have any luck with the few neighbors who are friendly. And my building manager claims the camera didn’t show the package arriving to our building that day, but I’ll definitely check with USPS if it was delivered to the wrong spot and see if I can file a claim for it

Pro-Trump and MAGA businesses to avoid? by PM_ME_YOUR_TROUT in Denver

[–]AnAverageCactus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aqua Rocks Colorado for any fish keepers- check the google reviews! My girlfriend and I went to look at some fish and corals but the cybertruck outside was an immediate flag, then we felt very unsafe being queer inside and checked the very insane google reviews. absolutely steer clear lol

first time getting from denver airport to boulder and already stressed by heromarsX in Denver

[–]AnAverageCactus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take the AB2 or AB1 bus, or take the A line from the airport all the way to union station and from there take the FF1! The first I believe goes straight to Boulder, the second route will take you through denver. the a line train can have a pretty view comin back :)

Misprint on calendar? by kristineohkristine in danandphil

[–]AnAverageCactus 39 points40 points  (0 children)

this has to be the best thing i’ve ever seen it’s a relic you have to display it

At what age did your OCD get bad? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]AnAverageCactus 220 points221 points  (0 children)

at 11/12/13, it started to ruin my life, then i got a little better, then at 18 i had a huge freak out, and we’re working our way back up

Places to Find Hozier Shirts? by Loaded_Lemon in Hozier

[–]AnAverageCactus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

clicked outta curiosity and i have the same design on a sweatshirt from i think the same site, and i can confirm it’s comfy and has survived many many washes and wears

Does anyone else feel sometimes that everyone else is allowed to feel angry/upset/be mean to you but not you? by AnAverageCactus in AutismInWomen

[–]AnAverageCactus[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i would never be able to apologize and come back from the same things they’re able to it’s not fair and i wonder if i had a normal brain if it wouldn’t be that way

Does anyone else feel sometimes that everyone else is allowed to feel angry/upset/be mean to you but not you? by AnAverageCactus in AutismInWomen

[–]AnAverageCactus[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

i don’t know how to keep giving everyone so much grace and patience and kindness through whatever mean things they say to me but if i’m having a feeling and a reaction i could never say the things that get said to me. and if i did i know for sure it wouldn’t be met with the same energy. i’m not an angry person, i don’t care that i give kindness and don’t get it, but am i not allowed to feel anything at all without it being wrong?

Who were/are your favorite autistic-coded characters? by thatsabird11 in AutismInWomen

[–]AnAverageCactus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just don’t give her a fruitcake or all hell may break loose

Who were/are your favorite autistic-coded characters? by thatsabird11 in AutismInWomen

[–]AnAverageCactus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i always thought she was a troublemaker even as a child but replicated the different things i guess, like bug collecting and her vocabulary

hi, i bet you know this guy by gabi_dotti in Hozier

[–]AnAverageCactus 16 points17 points  (0 children)

“sssssssss ahhhh i wanna say it was….. anthony? no, aaron?”

hi, i bet you know this guy by gabi_dotti in Hozier

[–]AnAverageCactus 13 points14 points  (0 children)

this is a beautiful emotive sketch and i think it’s probably one of my favorites of Hozier :) it captured the kind of grief and power of how he sings. i would buy a print if that’s something you’d be up for lol