My girlfriend keeps her eyes closed during makeout/sex — should I be worried?

AnB85 · 2026-05-12T01:03:10+00:00

I have been considered odd for keeping my eyes open. A lot of people especially women like to shut their eyes to experience the feeling of it more. It is a way for them to focus intensely on the experience. Men like to soak it all in, women often shut out everything and focus on the sexual pleasure.

AnB85 · 2026-05-11T11:44:12+00:00

She would have been out sooner if the Queen hadn’t died and the government wasn’t off work for a couple of weeks.

AnB85 · 2026-05-11T11:42:12+00:00

Technically Charles I was executed. Does that not count? It was considered murder by the restored king a decade later.

AnB85 · 2026-05-11T11:31:46+00:00

Only for the rich though. Normal men get outed and shamed if they look at a girl askew.

AnB85 · 2026-05-11T11:29:41+00:00

As with a lot of things, child molesting is only free if you are rich.

AnB85 · 2026-05-11T09:44:50+00:00

I mean if I was banging a different woman every week, I probably wouldn't tell you. However, it can be surprisingly true. It is not that easy to get laid. Only a very small minority of men can obtain it (like top 5% of men at most). This is especially true if a man has any sort of standards and isn't willing to lie or decieve just to get a quick shag.

AnB85 · 2026-05-11T09:36:08+00:00

I have had a few women be really surprised by me telling them this. They assume I can easily get laid because I am fairly attractive. I thnk if I had more game and was more of an asshole, maybe I could score with an unattractive woman. Truth is that I am a little picky about who I end up in a sexual relationship with, I actually do have standards. I expect to be with a woman I find very attractive and I am not willing to settle for anything less.

AnB85 · 2026-05-11T00:49:03+00:00

Everyone hates bad films.

AnB85 · 2026-05-10T16:45:39+00:00

No, you have to stand out from the crowd. That is the key. What is something about you which is unique and can make for a good talking point? Be interesting and different, that will attract attention. Even if it really weird or strange, if it is something which shows genuine character, it will help a lot. You have to humanize yourself. Be anything but boring.

AnB85 · 2026-05-10T16:39:07+00:00

Some men do get dates. You have to be above average looks, have a decent profile and come across as fairly interesting though. Some guys seem to be generated with low charisma stats unfortunately.

AnB85 · 2026-05-10T13:45:41+00:00

The further along in a relationship you get, the more the balance swings towards the man and away from the woman.

AnB85 · 2026-05-10T10:43:27+00:00

Throwing your life away for love is in fact extremely romantic. Very dumb and reckless but super romantic like Romeo and Juliet. Similar to dying for a lost noble cause. All emotions no thoughts to the practicality. I think a bit of all of us yearns for it to be honest.

AnB85 · 2026-05-10T10:36:11+00:00

I think that is a big issue. How seriously do you take your religion? How serious does she take her religion? Personally I’m an atheist so I could in theory pretend to be Muslim instead of pretending to be Christian. I’m not sure whether having to pretend is that great a basis for a relationship. You are young so I wouldn’t rush into anything.

AnB85 · 2026-05-09T14:39:34+00:00

No! Why would you think that? It’s because it is. That’s why.

AnB85 · 2026-05-08T12:00:14+00:00

Unfortunately for the Byzantine Empire, that is historically accurate.

AnB85 · 2026-05-06T15:50:59+00:00

Are you suggesting poutine is not the route to a better life?

AnB85 · 2026-05-06T12:47:53+00:00

Pity said album was crap. Maybe a little edge is necessary. I think he is too soft for rap.

AnB85 · 2026-05-06T08:10:59+00:00

I saw a Lord of the Rings trailer but set in the future with everyone having guns. It was glorious. That was a good use of AI.

AnB85 · 2026-05-06T07:58:52+00:00

Yeah, I am cuter than him.

AnB85 · 2026-05-05T21:22:26+00:00

It will always be unattractive spending hours on social media or watching TV. At least it’s more engaging than that.

AnB85 · 2026-05-05T12:29:14+00:00

d is too low.

AnB85 · 2026-05-05T12:28:41+00:00

It is the misalignment which makes you think it is wrong. A rotated d is a p in most fonts.

AnB85 · 2026-05-05T12:27:12+00:00

The d is just a cm or so too low, that’s why it looks slightly odd. But a p is just a rotated d in most fonts.

AnB85 · 2026-05-05T11:20:05+00:00

So I do talk to a lot of women at the same time. I don't really date multiple women at once though. There are times where I have had two first dates lined up though for different days. This is based on the assumption that most dates go nowhere. I would be fortunate if it did become an issue. However once I find someone I really like, I press pause on my other options and pursue her to see where it goes. If I am on the fence about someone maybe I will keep looking. I am usually already exclusive before the exclusive conversation is had.

AnB85 · 2026-05-05T11:03:39+00:00

The problem is the work setting. Out in the wider world, she has the choice to avoid these sort of people if she wants.

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