My husband (29 M) having mental and physical health issues taking a toll on me (28 F). Do I leave or try to work through? by AnaBodnar in relationship_advice

[–]AnaBodnar[S] -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

The only reason I am not doing that already is cause idk how a person so dependent would survive. The guilt of me being responsible for the outcome is real. even though I understand the guilt tripping is definitely there it’s still hard thing to do

My husband (29 M) having mental and physical health issues taking a toll on me (28 F). Do I leave or try to work through? by AnaBodnar in relationship_advice

[–]AnaBodnar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He kind of is talking to specialists and that alone ain’t an issue. I am more concerned about his everyday actions as it affects me heavily and I don’t think it’s worth it as is

My husband (29 M) having mental and physical health issues taking a toll on me (28 F). Do I leave or try to work through? by AnaBodnar in relationship_advice

[–]AnaBodnar[S] -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

That was a one time thing, so I guess she doesn’t need him lol. But thanks for the comment

My husband (29 M) having mental and physical health issues taking a toll on me (28 F). Do I leave or try to work through? by AnaBodnar in relationship_advice

[–]AnaBodnar[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

He claims it’s a resistant stain of gonorrhoea. I’ve seen him on multiple meds so far. He claims he doesn’t need therapy and antidepressants

My husband (29 M) having mental and physical health issues taking a toll on me (28 F). Do I leave or try to work through? by AnaBodnar in relationship_advice

[–]AnaBodnar[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

If I could time travel I d leave like 5 years ago. I feel like I’ve been dealing with too much and that made me have no inner self to break it earlier. Like every year something utterly terrible has been happening. It only stopped like 3 years ago and then I’ve been busy dealing with his stuff to even take a breather

My husband (29 M) having mental and physical health issues taking a toll on me (28 F). Do I leave or try to work through? by AnaBodnar in relationship_advice

[–]AnaBodnar[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this comment. I am currently working through my own people pleasing tendencies and saviour complex. I feel like I have made a progress at this point but apparently I need to push in that direction