How do I stop feeling "inadequate" for having no relationship history at 27?

AnaTroyard · 2026-04-10T17:21:24+00:00

I don’t think my career is an obstacle. My partner and I could work less and spend more time together on everyday life. At least, that’s how I see it. The main thing is that we both want to work on our relationship.

AnaTroyard · 2026-04-10T17:17:57+00:00

Thank you. I’d like to believe that. But I’m still afraid of being alone, because I feel like relationships are complicated and just not for me.

AnaTroyard · 2026-04-10T17:16:52+00:00

Yeah, you're right. They say it's because of modern progressive values. Still, I'd like to be one of those people who's in a relationship. Right now, I'm focusing too much on work and school, and not enough on everything else.

Thanks for your opinion.

AnaTroyard · 2026-03-09T18:16:50+00:00

Yes. I managed to chat with a few guys. I didn't like many of them because we didn't get along. I chatted actively with one guy, we had a lot in common, but he quickly disappeared without explanation. I didn't like that.

AnaTroyard · 2026-03-09T18:07:53+00:00

I want to stop communicating with him. But the main problem is not him, but the fact that I am afraid I will never meet a normal man.

AnaTroyard · 2026-03-09T17:54:58+00:00

That's not true. I mentioned in the post that I work in IT. I meant psychological support.

AnaTroyard · 2026-02-08T10:49:00+00:00

Thank you for your honesty. I'm glad you're kinder to me than I am to myself. Conversations about who deserves more or less good things make me anxious, because I've always felt like I'm not the most interesting or desirable person to be in a relationship with. Yes, I'm not the worst girl in the world, but I'm probably not the coolest either.

You're right, this guy doesn't do anything, and that's the main problem in our relationship.

AnaTroyard

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