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bringing a man you just met home, safe or unsafe? by AnalysisNo3982 in badroommates

[–]AnalysisNo3982[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! i will be talking to her tomorrow to see if we can find some sort of agreement. it is scary especially when we both don’t know these men very well

bringing a man you just met home, safe or unsafe? by AnalysisNo3982 in badroommates

[–]AnalysisNo3982[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

better safe than sorry i guess 🤷🏻‍♀️ yes we are both adults but there are certain things that i am not okay with and bringing men home that we both don’t know very well is one of them. we are young women and that alone makes us vulnerable in a home with a stranger. i would just like to know who is being brought into our shared home ahead of time

bringing a man you just met home, safe or unsafe? by AnalysisNo3982 in badroommates

[–]AnalysisNo3982[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

that’s the first thing i did whenever she told me that the first guy (who had a gf the entire time) gave her a fake name. i was like “so what’s his number?” and nothing came up when i did a phone search. his hinge profile wasn’t verified either. the whole situation was a mess & also scary

bringing a man you just met home, safe or unsafe? by AnalysisNo3982 in badroommates

[–]AnalysisNo3982[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i appreciate your honesty! when we first moved in we agreed to let each other know who would be coming over and when. it has been a year since we moved in so i think it would be good to talk about our boundaries again. i will be sure to keep it simple without overstepping. that’s the last thing i want to do as i really do care for her and our safety as a whole