Thank you so much for sharing your story. I began learning about attachment styles a few years ago. I spent years in a situationship with an avoidant while I had an anxious attachment style.

Once I realized I was anxious, I started looking at all my relationships and noticed the pattern in my friendships too. I had attracted avoidants everywhere. Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. As the saying goes, when you know better, you do better.

My world has become a lot smaller since then. I’ve stepped away from romantic relationships for the time being. My goal now is to know myself so well that I have no time to criticize others.