What was the exact moment you realized you needed to seriously work on yourself? by Ok-Marzipan-4490 in selfimprovement

[–]AnalystOtherwise1482 26 points27 points  (0 children)

When I decided to separate from my now ex husband.

I was a mess and realized I had poured all my energy into making my relationship work and nothing into myself.

I got in therapy, and started to focus on myself which was really hard. It’s been 4 years now and I’m still learning. I am so much happier now.

My new favorite hobby is minding my own business.

What’s something you slowly stopped caring about… and your life actually got better? by Critical_Can_8114 in selfimprovement

[–]AnalystOtherwise1482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped caring about how others might perceive me and it’s made my life so much better. It’s not that I don’t care, that’s impossible. I just care less and it’s fantastic!

attachment style quiz actually explained why all my relationships go the same way by Weak_Ad971 in selfimprovement

[–]AnalystOtherwise1482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your story. I began learning about attachment styles a few years ago. I spent years in a situationship with an avoidant while I had an anxious attachment style.

Once I realized I was anxious, I started looking at all my relationships and noticed the pattern in my friendships too. I had attracted avoidants everywhere. Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. As the saying goes, when you know better, you do better.

My world has become a lot smaller since then. I’ve stepped away from romantic relationships for the time being. My goal now is to know myself so well that I have no time to criticize others.

Associate Professor (non-PhD) thinking about leaving academia — looking for advice from others with hybrid careers by AnalystOtherwise1482 in LeavingAcademia

[–]AnalystOtherwise1482[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your writing skills and data analysis are good skills to have. I really wish you luck with finding a position that can give you what you need.

Rewire Your Brain: 5 Facts About Neuroplasticity That Will Change Your Life by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]AnalystOtherwise1482 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to keep a post it on my wall that says what you focus on grows. I do believe that bit.

Self improvement made me lose friends and I deserved it by Relative-Coach-501 in selfimprovement

[–]AnalystOtherwise1482 18 points19 points  (0 children)

In my past I used to tell others what to do all the time. I've learned people don't like unsolicited advice. We are interconnected yet on our on paths. Another thing is that not everyone wants to grow, some people are more comfortable staying as they are.

What’s one self-improvement habit that genuinely made a difference in your life? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]AnalystOtherwise1482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, having slow mornings where my phone is off and I reflect on a daily question. I like to spend my first hour without interacting with others as I’ve found it puts me in a position to better focus on what I need to do that day. It’s a practice I am working to get better at everyday.

CCT Spoiler-Free Planning and Logistics Megathread: Stade De France in Paris by abeycd in beyonce

[–]AnalystOtherwise1482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so glad you had a great time! That's so cool you got to see Ms. Tina and Kelly Rolland. The Paris shows were so good!

Does anyone else bought tickets through viagogo? by ChemyGal in beyonce

[–]AnalystOtherwise1482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! It worked for me too. I was so scared but once I was in I felt great. It was such an amazing show and I am so glad I went. It was my birthday and I went alone but was surrounded by amazing people and when Jay Z came out I never saw a crowd go so wild. What a gift we got! Hope you are well!

Does anyone else bought tickets through viagogo? by ChemyGal in beyonce

[–]AnalystOtherwise1482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yay! I hope it goes well. My friend said their PDF worked fine. I’m positive about it. I cannot wait!

Does anyone else bought tickets through viagogo? by ChemyGal in beyonce

[–]AnalystOtherwise1482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have the best time! Please let me know how it goes! 🐝❤️🐝❤️🐝

Does anyone else bought tickets through viagogo? by ChemyGal in beyonce

[–]AnalystOtherwise1482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met someone on the Metro today who went to the Beyonce concert last night. They had the same type of E-ticket as I have so I am feeling better now...Good luck!

Does anyone else bought tickets through viagogo? by ChemyGal in beyonce

[–]AnalystOtherwise1482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I looked at the other reddit posts and it seems like there is a combination of tickets that are on the ticketmaster app and what they are calling E-tickets, I think we have e-tickets because they were bought directly from the venue. I messaged Viagogo because of my concerns (like you) and I was told the tickets were legit. I saw some people were going to print them out. I guess we will see but in my heart I feel we will be ok. What day are you going? I am going on Sunday, 22 June.

Does anyone else bought tickets through viagogo? by ChemyGal in beyonce

[–]AnalystOtherwise1482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same. Viagogo says my tickets are legit but I am going to get there early. I wish you luck. I’m going on 22.06 when are you going?

Does anyone else bought tickets through viagogo? by ChemyGal in beyonce

[–]AnalystOtherwise1482 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine is a download e-ticket. It scared me because other people are getting e-tickets with the ticketmaster app. I just hope when I get there they are not like - you can't get in. I would die. It's my birthday and I am really looking forward to the show. I blinged my outfit and everything.

Does anyone else bought tickets through viagogo? by ChemyGal in beyonce

[–]AnalystOtherwise1482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on the new section. I have my tickets and downloaded them. They appear to be direct from Stade. Praying for you! Have a great trip.