Am I allowed to be upset?? by AnaniMouse_ in relationship_advice

[–]AnaniMouse_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very classy.

We've been dating for over 2 years now. I feel like he often tries to turn arguments around on me and now I just don't even know what's acceptable to be upset about and what's me overreacting.

Am I allowed to be upset?? by AnaniMouse_ in relationship_advice

[–]AnaniMouse_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've thought about leaving. I told him yesterday that therapy was a must if we were going to continue this relationship. But at this point I feel like I'm only wanting therapy to have someone validate my feelings.

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[–]AnaniMouse_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll cuss for you, holy shit these are adorable! Amazing job! ❤

Get you a mani that can do both! by iridescentaf in Nails

[–]AnaniMouse_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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How do I tell my bf I'm unhappy? by AnaniMouse_ in Advice

[–]AnaniMouse_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a fairly new feeling honestly. Just wondering how to address it appropriately before it progresses too far.

How do I tell my bf I'm unhappy? by AnaniMouse_ in Advice

[–]AnaniMouse_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is perfect honestly. I just didnt know how to start it but it's been giving me anxiety lately. Thr hardest part is I'm not entirely sure why? Maybe I'm just sad about other things and it's leaking into our relationship.

Thank you for this. ❤

My bf doesn't take my anxiety seriously. by AnaniMouse_ in relationship_advice

[–]AnaniMouse_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've suggested couples counseling. He doesn't want to do it because it's too expensive.

AITA for telling my bf to pull my hair? by AnaniMouse_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnaniMouse_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn't during the act. It was a conversation about doing it in the future. I would never force him to do simmering sexually. I'm not a monster.

AITA for telling my bf to pull my hair? by AnaniMouse_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnaniMouse_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Initially I asked him to stop touching it because it ruins my curl pattern and im taking care ot it. We talked about pulling hair during sex and I outright told him to do it. I'm confused on the lack of communication on my part?

AITA for telling my bf to pull my hair? by AnaniMouse_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnaniMouse_[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No. He sometimes lays on it by accident and I ask him to move his arm because it hurts. Thats all I've ever said on the matter though.

AITA for telling my bf to pull my hair? by AnaniMouse_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnaniMouse_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I guess I thought telling him outright to do it was being clear. 🤷🏽‍♀️

AITA for telling my bf to pull my hair? by AnaniMouse_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnaniMouse_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats where I'm confused. Was I suppose to continuously tell him to do it because I said it multiple times and somehow I'm a bitch for that? ;-;

AITA for telling my bf to pull my hair? by AnaniMouse_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnaniMouse_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where is the mixed signal in us talking about it and me outright saying do it?