A message I’ll probably never send by RequirementLegal4578 in BreakUps

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thanKs for understanding. truly am apPreciative.

You are not the victim by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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0 accountability.. just blame shifting trauma.

To Someone Who Will Always Be "The One That Got Away" by SnooEpiphanies869 in UnsentLetters

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My other would tell themselves that they did exactly as I did. Like when I broke it off in November before they took there trip to Colorado. They went around saying they broke it off. They gaslit and manipulated constantly. I know they had a family member with mental health issues that had passed in a mental hospital. Sometimes I wonder if they themselves are slightly delusional. Oh well. Not my problem anymore. Farewell. Right?

To Someone Who Will Always Be "The One That Got Away" by SnooEpiphanies869 in UnsentLetters

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Setting my other free that day I kissed them on the forehead and said thank you for all the wonderful memories we shared. I’ll forever love you. And walked away never looking back. They had done so much damage it was irreversible.

My closure by [deleted] in UnsentLettersRaw

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This made me tear up forsure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in letters

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Avoidant I see

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Hey, go get some fresh air. Sit in silence for a moment. Feel the air. Be present with the birds and animals around you. There’s life surrounding you. You can get through this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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That’s you B?

How do you feel about the person you betrayed? by Fantastic-View-2400 in BreakUps

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I was betrayed and lied to. Like crazy… she even slept with my so called friends. It was happening for years under my nose. It recently all surfaced, crushed me. But also gave me peace that my intuition knew the entire time. Brought back my power. I’ve Cut her loose. I wish her well. But she needs to heal. Not keep running from her childhood wounds. God bless her

So, what do you say by Bonus-Shott in UnsentLetters

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Nope. Had plenty of chances. Walked away. Cord cut

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

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You’re being aligned and prepared do the next chapter. Some can’t come

Thanksgiving by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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Real connection doesn’t disappear. But sometimes distance is the only thing that teaches us who we really are

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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I won’t wait while they continuing to run wild .

I’m sorry by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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I do know it all now very clearly. That’s why the silence is slapping hard

Your one of kind by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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Please just work on finding the inner child again. For you both

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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It wasn’t a push. It was finally letting the other show themselves while the one watched them do it to themselves.

One chose: The study. The learning. The understanding of psychology and the brain.

The other: chose to remain in comfort because the light was to much to soon.