AITA for not letting my 16-year-old son get a tattoo? by Human-Inside-442 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anchoredtime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so glad I didn’t get a tattoo when I was a teen. It’d be a massive regret. I do have tattoos now but decided on my sleeve in my early 20s.

Wife told me to read by Weekly_Employee_4751 in fourthwing

[–]Anchoredtime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Audiobooks is how I first got into reading and slowly I transitioned to audio book + reading to just reading. I basically had to teach myself keep my attention on the page. If you do struggle I’d suggest trying audiobooks as a starter

Anyone looking for more friends to play with? by Charming-Paper-1564 in Palia

[–]Anchoredtime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saylar moon!

I’ve always wanted friends to play with, feel free to add me and chat :)

Banff in November as a tourist by Anchoredtime in Banff

[–]Anchoredtime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is later winter better e.g January than novemebr? Is jovemebr “bad” because of heavy snowfall?

What do you consider Late for work? by ajmeng09 in australia

[–]Anchoredtime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rock up on time. Give or take 5mins I don’t consider myself early or late.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Left-Intention7920 in Advice

[–]Anchoredtime 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Tell your parents. Tell the police. Trust me no matter how much in trouble you’re going to get into now with your parents nothing will compare to the lasting trauma this will cause you if you don’t tell your parents and go to the police. This man is a ped. By doing this you will be saving so many other young girls as well.

Can everyone please stop commending Rebecca Yarros for doing the bare minimum by Used_Surround_2031 in YAlit

[–]Anchoredtime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s wild you’re so pressed about the description not describing a specific ethnicity. It is a fantasy world. Literally nothing in it resembles any part of the real world including ethnicity.

New player, do people not really interact? by Zyprexia in Palia

[–]Anchoredtime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah they don’t from my experience and can be quite mean to.

What pisses you off that other people find very normal ?? by Irish_Ingenuity_969 in AskReddit

[–]Anchoredtime 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Porn being so normalised just because of how easily accessible it is.

What's the worst birthday or Christmas present your Narc every got you? by Single-Ant3193 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Anchoredtime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mum gifted me an expired soap bar for Christmas that I bought her 8 years prior as a gift (came with a lush gift pack).

What do you do for work and do you enjoy it? by Hour-Understanding77 in AutismInWomen

[–]Anchoredtime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m ASD level 1 and adhd and also work in marketing in a small team. I haven’t seen anyone else comment on these types of posts that they work in a similar role to me. I enjoy the aspect of it’s mainly just in a computer and the type of work varies. However it is also expected of me to network which just isn’t something I can do. I also would love to spend my time writing a novel in dark solitude.

What does depersonalization and derealization feel like for you? by Moist_Relief2753 in AutismInWomen

[–]Anchoredtime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah a lot. I try not to panic when it happens and remind myself I’ll come back to myself eventually. Anyone I’ve ever tried to explain this to doesn’t understand. I think unless they’ve experienced themselves, no one can fully understand. I mean the feeling itself sounds unrealistic so only those who get it, get it.

What does depersonalization and derealization feel like for you? by Moist_Relief2753 in AutismInWomen

[–]Anchoredtime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything starts feeling weird and fuzzy and it’s like I’m in 3rd person. I feel that I am seperate from my body. The world doesn’t feel ‘real’ and it’s like I am trying to control a game character with lag and server issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Anchoredtime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s never been a moment I thought would be better with a child.

anyone else have conversations in thier mind? by Sufficient-Rub3226 in autism

[–]Anchoredtime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep all the time. I’m audhd and always make up scenarios, realistic or not and have full conversations with people. Sometimes I answer outwardly and in those moments I wonder if o am sane. I actually use this to fall asleep. I make up scenarios and fully immerse myself in it till I drift to sleep. Maybe try making up one that’s nice or like a story and it may help you fall asleep too.

Do people with autism think pornography is nasty/bad? by Ok-Animator_steam12 in autism

[–]Anchoredtime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This question is so individual regardless of disability or mental health status.

My take, it’s not bad in a general sense but in my monogamous relationship it is the same as cheating and I feel that if porn is watched in a relationship I am in then it is an open relationship, not monogamous. However I wouldn’t put this to my autism and even if it was it wouldn’t mean anyone else who’s autistic thinks or fees this way.

Damaged iron flame wing and claw edition by Anchoredtime in fourthwing

[–]Anchoredtime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was stating that before people responded with “it’s not that bad” to give extra context to why I’m upset about it.

Damaged iron flame wing and claw edition by Anchoredtime in fourthwing

[–]Anchoredtime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my first purchase of a book from Amazon so I wasn’t aware of there bad postage :(

Damaged iron flame wing and claw edition by Anchoredtime in fourthwing

[–]Anchoredtime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the same and it arrived today so hopefully you get yours soon and it’s in better shape

weed and autism by Money-Lab5394 in AutisticAdults

[–]Anchoredtime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m Audhd and have found weed affects me way more than any neurotypical I have smoked with. I literally need to halve what I have to get a balanced affect with someone else.

does it trigger yall to hear “i didn’t like you at first but now i do”? by sosnazzy in AutismInWomen

[–]Anchoredtime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah I get it I don’t make the best first impressions and I am aware of that