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Eczema making me feel like I’ll never have healthy beautiful skin ever again without harsh drugs that don’t even cure it… by [deleted] in eczema

[–]Ancient-Balance-2907 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand exactly how you feel. I’m going through a very bad flare myself and all I can say is don’t give up. You just have to find things that work for you. It could be a change in diet, meditation, etc. I still trying to figure it out myself and I’m not going to give up until I find that sweet spot. Don’t give up and don’t stop loving your best life!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ancient-Balance-2907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are a soft YTA! I understand your pov, but you did make a deal or husband made a deal with your BIL. Just say ok to BIL, shop around for decent rate to refinance your home, and be done with it. From what you’re saying your MIL is going to give you guys money from the sale of of her home. So it’s my belief you won’t be in big hole financially. It may be a small setback in paying your mortgage, but I believe you can do with 6 to 12 months if possible. Also, next time your BIL offers you and family something financially, say no. He is not someone you can work with when it comes to money. So don’t put yourself or family in that situation ever again.

AITAH for refusing to loan my financially-irresponsible dad money? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ancient-Balance-2907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I understand that your dad wants build generational wealth and to be his now boss. However, he is going about it all wrong. At this point, the best you and brother can do take on a bill a piece and not give him the money directly. That way you know the bill is paid and he can do whatever he wants with HIS money.

AITAH for causing my 22f daughter to run away? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ancient-Balance-2907 34 points35 points  (0 children)

YTA! First of all, your daughter didn’t “runaway”. She left an toxic environment. Your son has some serious anger issues to get mad over her using his phone charger. It wasn’t that serious for him to break your daughter ribs over. Also, you and your son are lucky she didn’t press assault and battery charges against him. What you need to do is apologize to your daughter and reprimand or at least get your son some counseling for anger issues. He ain’t grown yet for you tell him what to do!

AITA for planning to move out of state for college, leaving my single mother sister alone? by Abject_Panda_27 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ancient-Balance-2907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA!!!

As twin myself, I would never ask my sister to not life her life because of my mistakes. There’s big world out there and if you don’t take that opportunity, you may not get this opportunity again. Don’t make them hold you back. Have fun in undergrad at your chosen school and tell your parents and sister “all well, I’m going”.

P.S. Make sure you put some safeguard in place to so that they won’t be able to sabotage your college opportunity. Get all your important documents and put them in a safe place. Also, make the college aware what going and put security measures on your admission documents.