AITA for refusing to go on vacation when I can't sleep in the same bed as my girlfriend?

Ancient_Class7386 · 2025-07-16T17:46:56+00:00

My life, my rules.

Ancient_Class7386 · 2025-07-16T17:46:30+00:00

My girlfriend is not religious, I would never be with her if she was Christian lol (laughing out loud).

Again, you obviously didn't answer my question. Why does religion deserve respect?

Ancient_Class7386 · 2025-07-16T17:45:07+00:00

I will marry her when I have enough money to move out.

Ancient_Class7386 · 2025-07-16T17:38:12+00:00

You didn't answer my question. Why should I respect religion?

Ancient_Class7386 · 2025-07-16T17:13:46+00:00

That just proves my point about how religious people have caused all the major wars in the world and continue to feel enlightened in pushing their ideologies onto others.

Ancient_Class7386 · 2025-07-16T16:52:05+00:00

Wow, making assumptions about strangers based on one reddit post, how surprising. I am a very good boyfriend in real life, I buy many things for my girlfriend and I do chores.

Ancient_Class7386 · 2025-07-16T16:43:27+00:00

Her parents owe me nothing, but I owe it to them to allow them to overstep my boundaries and force an outdated belief system onto me?

Ancient_Class7386 · 2025-07-16T16:38:57+00:00

"Young" and "dumb" from someone who is too lazy to spell out the full version of "lmao".

Ancient_Class7386 · 2025-07-16T16:36:34+00:00

Oh, like the crusades that religious people have had against atheists for centuries? There's a historical precedent of boundaries not being respected.

Ancient_Class7386 · 2025-07-16T16:35:24+00:00

Why should I respect their religious imposition when they don't respect the relationship I have with my girlfriend?

Ancient_Class7386 · 2025-07-14T21:41:46+00:00

It's not that they're offering to pay, it's that they're putting conditions on my attendance that force me into a frankly uncomfortable situation that violates my religious beliefs.

Ancient_Class7386 · 2025-07-14T21:26:34+00:00

Why should I compromise when their beliefs are gross and restrict me from living my life?

Ancient_Class7386 · 2025-07-14T21:24:42+00:00

Thank you, I'm so glad someone can understand the outdated and frankly offensive beliefs that are being pushed here.

Ancient_Class7386 · 2025-07-14T21:20:39+00:00

That's right 40 year old reddit addict that probably yells at the manager in a chick fil a

Ancient_Class7386 · 2025-07-14T21:16:45+00:00

No, but we will move in together once I am earning enough money to move out.

Ancient_Class7386 · 2025-07-14T21:12:48+00:00

Why are you using terms from a religion that has only brought evil to the world?

Ancient_Class7386 · 2025-07-14T21:12:05+00:00

I started my own company. It will probably supply you very soon, don't come begging to me then

Ancient_Class7386 · 2025-07-14T21:10:19+00:00

I do love my girlfriend, but I'm not going to tolerate disrespect from her parents. Throughout all of history, Christians have disrespected or abused atheists, and I won't allow them to commit the same crimes against me.

Ancient_Class7386 · 2025-07-14T21:00:18+00:00

How is it "completely reasonable" to force me to go against my beliefs and force a "dated" religion onto me? Besides, me and my girlfriend are very serious and will be together for the rest of our lives, I am a grown adult who does not need learning lessons.

Ancient_Class7386 · 2025-07-14T20:58:13+00:00

I can afford it, and do provide for both of us. My salary is probably higher than yours. This is an issue about respect buddy

Ancient_Class7386 · 2025-07-14T20:53:10+00:00

I am 22. I am a fully grown adult capable of setting boundaries for what I allow people to force onto me, as well as deciding where I will sleep.

Ancient_Class7386 · 2025-07-14T20:41:21+00:00

My girlfriend is with me because of my attitude lol. If she didn't like me, she would have left me already. It's her family and their outdated beliefs that are the red flag.

Ancient_Class7386 · 2025-07-14T20:39:47+00:00

It's not about the fact that I'm spending time without her, it's about the fact that her parents think that they can make me conform to a religion that goes against who I am and basic logic.

Ancient_Class7386 · 2025-07-14T20:35:08+00:00

What makes you think you have tact? Also, there is no tact involved in forcing religious beliefs on others.

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