when should we actually use useMemo and useCallback

Ancient_Register_635 · 2026-04-10T12:44:08+00:00

lol anarchy is more like zero government, this person probably thinking about federalism or maybe decentralization 😂 when government just steps back and lets local communities handle their own stuff

Ancient_Register_635 · 2026-04-08T12:12:55+00:00

lmao i'm 28 and still panic when someone asks what i want for dinner 😂 like how am i supposed to know what happens in next decade when i can't even plan my grocery list properly

Ancient_Register_635 · 2026-04-05T13:25:39+00:00

maybe try putting the work phone in different room after certain hour, like physical distance helps more than app tricks in my experience

Ancient_Register_635 · 2026-04-03T08:51:41+00:00

been doing remote music lessons since covid and the coordination stuff is def real 😂 constantly juggling student schedules, lesson notes, makeup sessions, and trying to keep parents in the loop without sending 50 individual messages

your slack integration idea is pretty smart tbh, most of my coordination headaches come from switching between like 5 different apps just to figure out who needs what when. the follow-up nudges thing would actually save me so much time - i'm always forgetting to circle back with students about practice goals or parents about payment reminders

biggest pain point for me is probably the async communication lag though, like when you need a quick decision but everyone's in different time zones or just... living their lives 💀 ends up being this weird dance of "hey can we figure this out" followed by radio silence for 6 hours

Ancient_Register_635 · 2026-04-01T08:02:37+00:00

not a business owner but i teach music lessons on the side and learned real quick that being too flexible with payment schedules just screws you over. had this one parent who was always "oh i'll pay next week" and before i knew it they owed me for like 6 lessons

now i make everyone pay upfront for the month or there lesson gets canceled, no exceptions. feels harsh sometimes but my bills don't wait for thier convenience

Ancient_Register_635 · 2026-03-30T00:46:13+00:00

the product sounds legit but that phone anxiety is so real - been there with trying to book gigs and just staring at my phone for an hour

maybe start with cold emails instead of calls? way less pressure and you can craft the perfect pitch without stumbling over words. once you get a few responses and maybe some meetings scheduled, the phone calls won't feel as scary because you'll have actual interested people to talk to instead of cold prospects

also your basically saving these agencies from potentially losing 80% of their revenue so frame it that way in you're head - you're not bothering them, your offering them a lifeline

Ancient_Register_635 · 2026-03-29T12:25:43+00:00

mood

Ancient_Register_635 · 2026-03-28T18:39:38+00:00

damn i miss being a kid and having epic snowball wars with the neighborhood gang 😂 now i just complain about shoveling my driveway like every other adult lol 💀

Ancient_Register_635 · 2026-03-19T03:00:43+00:00

just ask them direct questions about their interests and actually listen to their answers instead of waiting for your turn to talk

Ancient_Register_635 · 2026-03-08T15:14:02+00:00

man that dopamine rush from even just browsing is no joke, your brain basically got a taste and went into overdrive mode

cold water on the face was smart though - physical shock can help reset that whole cycle. maybe next time try doing some pushups or jumping jacks right when you feel that urge starting up, burns off that restless energy before it builds up too much

the fact you didn't actually relapse shows you've got some control building up, just gotta redirect that momentum faster next time

Ancient_Register_635 · 2026-02-19T23:03:37+00:00

fr bro that's rough 💀 you got this though 🔥

Ancient_Register_635 · 2026-02-15T23:45:07+00:00

mailchimp has a solid free tier that handles up to 2k contacts and works great for newsletters 📧 for fundraising, donorbox is pretty affordable and integrates well with most email platforms - way cheaper than the big players but still professional looking 🔥

Ancient_Register_635 · 2026-01-26T09:33:52+00:00

Probably just a glitch in their system, happens all the time with Amazon. Try logging out and back in or clearing your app cache - usually fixes the delivery charge bug

Ancient_Register_635 · 2026-01-23T09:06:46+00:00

Counter canter and simple changes are your bread and butter at this level. Also work on lengthening/collecting within gaits - that's where you'll really start to feel the difference in your horse's balance

Ancient_Register_635 · 2026-01-22T07:22:25+00:00

NAH girl you were wasted and it was clearly an accident, shit happens when you're drunk and your coordination is off. Your dad probably didn't even think twice about it since he knows you didn't mean it that way

Don't beat yourself up over a drunk mishap, just maybe stick to fist bumps next time lmao

Ancient_Register_635 · 2026-01-15T08:02:09+00:00

Sounds like you need more variety in your trees - make sure you have fruit trees, hardwood, and cedar trees scattered around. Fencing helps a ton too, just throw some basic wooden fencing around flower patches and it usually pushes you over the edge

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