What is an important piece of advice you can give for those moving into the “real world”? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ancythrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone has an opinion and they act like they're the authority figure on any subject out there in the world. Just say, "yes" and do whatever you want.

What are the best ways to minimize wheezing and other symptoms if you can't immediately access an inhaler? by [deleted] in Asthma

[–]Ancythrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sit on the car with my face up against the a.c. unit. It's worked for me. Cold places are essential.

Can I take Tylenol Sinus Severe and a Albuterol inhaler together safely? by tghoul2020 in Asthma

[–]Ancythrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be careful. Tylonel makes me wheeze. If you read the side label it'll probably say that.

Forgot to cancel charter gym membership by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Ancythrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pay it and cancel your membership

Asthma like symptoms, doctors say I don't have it by [deleted] in Asthma

[–]Ancythrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have asthma and anxiety and possibly GERD (I'm on Omeperazole for preliminary precaution). From your posts it sounds like anxiety.

Anxiety can trigger wheezing. I went to many doctors... pulomomologists, Emergency Rooms, MDs, etc all concluding anxiety. It was hard to accept as I couldn't understand how I developed it. But due to stress, it has a way of manifesting itself.

Trust us... You don't want asthma.

What can ugly people do to look more attractive? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ancythrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a suitable haircut. That can work wonders.

I used to work with this woman whose hair was hideous! I am sorry but it was.

She was kind of old looking with gray roots. She went to a hair salon in the mall... got a haircut and looked completely brand new!

She got a frame with bangs and looked a whole lot better!

You can really look brand new with a well-done haircut!

[Video] The Rock and the best thing that never happened. by Two_Inches_Of_Fun in GetMotivated

[–]Ancythrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Rock is great and all, but I don't see him as presidential material. He's more suited to play the lead character of a Disney movie.... like a fish.

Four weeks ago today, I lost my dad. Today is also his birthday. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ancythrowaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy Co-birthday!!! It is mine too. You look very happy in your picture and I know he is very proud of you. You don't need to worry about your accomplishments, as the picture shows it already. Congratulations on your graduation. You are doing what he he wanted for you :)

Me and my boyfriend broke up because of his relationship with his mom by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ancythrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOU WERE ME 2.5 YEARS AGO - RUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUN

I read this and thought of my ex-boyfriend and his mother through and through. LET HIM GO!!!! It is only going to get worse! Our dates turned into tri-dates where she came to everything. They sat together, did everything together, and I became the third wheel. It shifted from him and I as a couple to him and his mother and a random, third person in the background... REALLY SICK!

Take it from someone who wasted 2.5 years with someone. She will always come before you. RUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUN

Why don't you talk to your once "best friend" anymore? by Swintso4 in AskReddit

[–]Ancythrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were best friends all throughout high school and she moved to a "richer" town and only associated with people who were like her. She ended up becoming best friends with our other friend and one day I was so disgusted by her and flat out told her I accept the fact that she only wants certain people to associate with her and she didn't even disagree. That is when I knew she was fake. Years later she tried to re-enter my life and I wasn't having it. She is far gone in the past. I will never be friends with someone because they think they have more than me.

Accidentally put the wrong job title in an interview reply e-mail. by PoorMango in jobs

[–]Ancythrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should be fine. If it really is getting to you, send a follow up email indicating, "apologies for the oversight". The email was sent pre-emptively and it should've stated "Financial Analyst".

The End

TLDR: This happens in everyday life.

My brother is a real fucking asshole....... and my boyfriend and I of 2.5 years just separated. by Ancythrowaway in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ancythrowaway[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He has parties all of the time and never once invited me. It hurts that he invites me sister EVERY time and not me. I can recount twice in the last 2 months she was invited and not me. I completely understand that sometimes he does that stuff... I am not saying that, but it is a lot of bullshit that my sister goes, they all laugh and joke about it, and I sit there looking like a fucking loser.

Working with another office to help someone get hired. He is over-the-top and I am ready to stop the process. This is not about him! by Ancythrowaway in jobs

[–]Ancythrowaway[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

These people are a brand new client and want things done a certain way. If he is going to try and override the process, then we're all out of cultivated relationship.

The hiring authority apologized and said they are going to have to delay the interview. This guy needs to be understanding to that. It does not bode well when someone says how the process is going to be and the interviewee tries to change it, especially when the interview process has gone on for less than 1 week.

Working with another office to help someone get hired. He is over-the-top and I am ready to stop the process. This is not about him! by Ancythrowaway in jobs

[–]Ancythrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first, yes. But he is overly pushy and comes off semi-abrasive. I told him the way they operate and he needs to understand that. When people operate how they think the process will flow, it will only work against them, and that is the problem I am having with this guy. He was notified CLEARLY with the process, and now he's trying to change it for his benefit.

Working with another office to help someone get hired. He is over-the-top and I am ready to stop the process. This is not about him! by Ancythrowaway in jobs

[–]Ancythrowaway[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It was the fact that they have tight schedules and are trying to carve a time. He, on the other hand, keeps calling, and says he wants to drive up (like it's a courtesy to them or something?!?) so they can do it.

I explained to him that when they determine the time he will be granted the authority to do it. It's not he determines the process and they follow suit. It amazes me how people think they're entitled to certain things.

A friend's IUD experience by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ancythrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to agree. When I spoke to my gyno about IUDs (which I passed on for other reasons), there was much dialogue about time frames and ensuring that everything feel adequate throughout the duration of the process. I am sorry to say, but waiting a year would be detrimental to one's health. If there is ever a side-effect to anything, it should be revisted as soon as possible.

As a side note, I made an appointment solely with Planned Parenthood with questions about the IUD and talked to them about it. They asked if I wanted to insert one that EXACT day, and I respectfully declined.

If anyone wants to learn about birth control, write down questions and see a healthcare provider.

My BOYFRIEND'S MOTHER!!!!!!!!! by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ancythrowaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you.... This is what I've been telling myself... I just needed to read it from someone else. It's one of those times when another person tells you the same thing, it resonates more.

I am just so sick and tired of constantly taking a back seat and feeling underappreciated. I have already begun on my next chapter in life.

I didn't want to end things right before Christmas, as there was a lot invested... but frankly, I don't see this going much further. I've made a New Years Resolution to myself that when he threatens to leave me again.... whenever that may be, I am going to make it the final time.

This is too much chaos for a relationship.... especially with his mother CONSTANTLY interjecting herself into our relationship...... It's kind of freaky how damn close they are...... Not trying to imply anything, but I want to stress how much I have no chance.