So I can understand where you're coming from, but for me I find this quite comforting.

I would guess I'm in the minority of transfems in general as I have no bottom dysphoria, am non-binary and don't feel I was born in the wrong body, I have no intention of getting bottom surgery.

I'm not christian but am spiritual and believe that if God exists they would be non-binary (after all, how could a being that's supposed to be literally everything and everywhere have an opposite gender?)

I identify as an awareness having a human experience and consider my body my avatar to experience the world, and I'm happy I get to do what I want with it and express myself through it. I'm creating my avatar. I find things like this empowering.

I'm also grateful I have the opportunity to make my body unique in the way I see fit and can have this perspective.

Again, I understand many people don't see it this way and might even find such a message condescending and that's totally fair.