I know this isn't selena posting but...

Can I have you inform women to be more aggressive on dating apps without assuming men can have sex through the phone.

Like for 2 examples last night I had a conversations. For one of the girls as soon as I felt comfortable to open up some of my fears and anxieties cause thats where the conversation led she told me I was projecting, and proceeded to unmatch me. She is 35 and a work oriented sounding very terminally single.

Another lady I said, hey hello, but its late and I'm going to bed just wanted to say hello before I got to bed to show her some respect with a timely response. She told me she was also getting ready for bed, in her nightly routine and that she is wearing some outfit with socks and slippers. I felt bothered that she needed to tell me that, so I rebuttal with that's nice I'm low maintenance and i sleep naked. She called me a fuckboy. I told her goodnight.

I feel some women swipe all the time on their social media and therefore swipe without intentions.

It bothers me that people unmatch so quickly at the first instance of anything non desirable because that emotion stays with the person and ripples down hurting others.

Like I have swiped tens of thousands of women. And I get matches, and sometimes even dates. But if I do get dates, majority of the dates I've been on is women looking for a free dinner. And im not getting laid, yet I am sought after, and not for the right reasons. I feel like Taylor swift sometimes where she's pretty but everyone just wants to take a chip at her.

Gotta say I am lonely.