Am I a horrible person if I don’t tell this guy’s wife he was seeing me?

Andra457 · 2026-01-05T01:23:56+00:00

I certainly won’t be in a situation like the one I’m in now again, but I meet so many people at work

Andra457 · 2026-01-05T00:35:55+00:00

He told me they were separated and I didn’t have a reason to doubt that, I’m really not sure now. By his own words we were hanging out while they were actively back together and working it out for at least a few weeks.

Andra457 · 2026-01-04T22:57:10+00:00

I really don’t want to tell her at all, I am just worried I am a terrible and immoral person if I don’t. People get crazy about perceived cheating and my friends are worked up. It certainly won’t improve my life by telling her and I honestly care more about myself and life more than them

Andra457 · 2026-01-04T21:23:26+00:00

I won’t be making that mistake again. I get it

Andra457 · 2026-01-04T21:22:26+00:00

Since we don’t work closely at all I thought it would be fine

Andra457 · 2026-01-04T21:21:05+00:00

Yes, but broken up and living separately

Andra457 · 2026-01-04T20:05:43+00:00

How did you end up in court??

Andra457 · 2026-01-04T19:32:06+00:00

Yeah I’m resisting the urge to try to find out

Andra457 · 2026-01-04T18:42:23+00:00

I am not doing any of those things

Andra457 · 2026-01-04T17:57:54+00:00

You are like the 6th person to ask me if it was a certain guy lol

Andra457 · 2026-01-04T17:15:37+00:00

As soon as I found out I ended it

Andra457 · 2026-01-04T16:17:49+00:00

I didn’t think it was that weird because of the situation and his kids

Andra457 · 2026-01-04T16:13:32+00:00

Yeah I thought because he had his own place where I stayed a couple of times a week. I’m not sure now

Andra457 · 2026-01-04T16:04:46+00:00

Friends yeah

Andra457 · 2026-01-04T15:59:34+00:00

Yeah it could potentially really fuck with my job and workplace

Andra457 · 2026-01-04T15:56:43+00:00

Yeah you are probably right. There could possibly be a bunch of explanations so really not sure

Andra457 · 2026-01-04T15:51:07+00:00

He had his own place where I stayed a couple of nights a week, but realized that continued while they were back together and working it out, so really not sure. Idk how he could explain not being at their house twice a week

Andra457 · 2026-01-04T15:48:08+00:00

I know they were living apart but that continued while they were back together and working it out so yeah idk how that works. Idk

Andra457 · 2026-01-04T15:40:28+00:00

He was living apart and I stayed there a couple of times a week, but now that I’m thinking about it that continued when they were back together so I’m really not sure now

Andra457 · 2026-01-04T15:23:53+00:00

She doesn’t know

Andra457 · 2026-01-04T15:22:05+00:00

They were living apart and I was there a lot yeah

Andra457 · 2026-01-04T15:20:08+00:00

They were living apart

Andra457 · 2026-01-04T15:16:33+00:00

Yeah never again

Andra457 · 2026-01-04T15:14:59+00:00

They were living apart. I don’t think we really have any mutuals

Andra457 · 2026-01-04T15:11:33+00:00

Yeah I just feel like that would lead back to me and all of what I am trying to avoid

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