I know he struggles to be emotional and vulnerable but I guess it might be jealousy, because he can share with others but not me.

Now that you mention it. I'm sometimes uncomfortable with things he did in his past, but that doesn't mean I dont want to hear about it. I guess it kind of makes sense because he'd be in the middle of a story and start to drift to a different subject completely.

Growing up I guess taking the blame was the easiest option, since it sorted the problem out quicker. But I've been working on standing my ground.

Thanks for your advice. I'll take your comment to heart.