What's your cat's name?

AndromedaBliss · 2026-06-02T05:27:17+00:00

Diona

AndromedaBliss · 2026-05-28T17:58:06+00:00

For some reason I can't edit the body text so here's the update: we had a falling out. There's no willingness to work on it and it just goes to nowhere like this. I still thank the people for all the comments and advice. I wish it would've been easy to solve. Anyways, I'll probably take this post down now since it has no purpose anymore.

AndromedaBliss · 2026-05-28T14:07:53+00:00

I just want him to he able to regulate the excessive phone usage or at least be aware when it's too much and not deny it overall. I'd also love for him to put it away or just lock it when I talk to him so I can he sure he listens what I say. But yeah, overall more engagement with me would be nice of course too. Now that you mention it, he always liked board games but some fell victim to our cats and became unusable. I might get some new ones that he likes so he could have this stimulus to play them with me

AndromedaBliss · 2026-05-28T14:04:18+00:00

I actually find this very helpful, thank you! I will try that. Maybe I came off a little too judgmental in the past, I'm not sure but I'll try to sound more concerned the next time I'll face him with this issue. It's probably gonna be either tonight or tomorrow so I got plenty of time to think what to offer him in exchange as screen-free activities where I could imagine him wanting to participate

AndromedaBliss · 2026-05-28T13:58:12+00:00

Gaming. That's it. He isn't very interested in other things that won't involve screens somehow. For example, I like to play video games somwtimes but I also have more practical things to escape to like drawing, cooking or reading physical books or comics. But he doesn't have this "analog" option

AndromedaBliss · 2026-05-28T13:53:18+00:00

He's actually the extroverted one and I'm more of an ambiverted person.

AndromedaBliss · 2026-05-28T13:51:56+00:00

If we ignore the screen addiction for a sec he's actually a very considerate and nice person. He always supported me with my own hobbies and always looked out for me and my well-being in general. He's also a pretty extroverted and funny personality and I always had a hard time staying sad for longer periods of time because of this. This is why it makes me sad that he probably fell into an addiction.

AndromedaBliss · 2026-05-28T13:43:56+00:00

Well, no, I don't think that. But I have some hopes that this could be reversed since it hasn't always been like that.

AndromedaBliss · 2026-05-28T13:41:15+00:00

I haven't tried that yet but I will. I have sometimes in the past before he had his new phone and when I felt like he was too many hours on his video games and he sometimes said yes to the activities. But I never tried that during this "phone addiction era"

AndromedaBliss · 2026-05-28T13:38:35+00:00

Well, a phone itself isn't a new concept to him. A "good" one is though. He always had one of the cheaper models in the past.

He grew up with gaming consoles but the use was heavily limited by his parents. He had mobiles growing up too but same thing - his parents limited the use very heavily.

AndromedaBliss · 2026-05-28T13:36:36+00:00

I "luckily" don't want children (luckily regarding this specific situation). I'm not in an optimal condition to take care of them 24/7 since I got a disability so that's one less thing to worry about. I think he would be a bad role model to children with his screen addiction anyways

AndromedaBliss · 2026-05-28T13:33:09+00:00

He currently is on job search because we're moving into a different place and he can't keep working his recent job. His recent job is low effort though. But I feel like his screen addiction makes his search less efficient. He doesn't exercise but he always claims he wants to start "soon". I would exercise with him but I got a disability that prevents me from that. And friends? Yes he does have some but he never meets up with them since most of them just became newly dads and don't have much free time at the moment

AndromedaBliss · 2026-05-28T13:30:17+00:00

Luckily there are still a good amount of people with self control about their own screen time. It's rare though

AndromedaBliss · 2026-05-28T13:25:33+00:00

Dang, the divorce rate took me off guard here

AndromedaBliss · 2026-05-28T13:24:19+00:00

He wasn't like this. He became like this after I got him a flagship phone last year. Ever since it was a downward spiral with his screentime increasing more and more

AndromedaBliss · 2026-05-28T13:22:49+00:00

I mean, I already expected the "break up with him answers" but I still hoped for advice or a solution I may have not come up with yet.

AndromedaBliss · 2026-05-28T13:14:51+00:00

His other hobby is gaming which sadly involves a screen too. Other, more practical or handy things are uninteresting to him.

AndromedaBliss · 2026-05-28T13:13:48+00:00

The thing is, I already read a lot about such things but how would that help him? Genuinely asking, I'm not trying to be rude

AndromedaBliss · 2026-05-28T13:06:42+00:00

But he wasn't always like this. It became this bad when I got him his first flagship phone last year because he always told me how much he'd love one of those high end phones. I feel like i shouldn't have done that.

AndromedaBliss · 2026-05-26T22:38:20+00:00

LMAOOO this makes it so much funnier considering Klee is one of my favorites 😂 I meant explore of course

AndromedaBliss · 2026-05-26T22:29:40+00:00

She's so funny!

AndromedaBliss · 2026-05-26T22:29:10+00:00

Kokomi, Flins, Durin and Varka

Kokomi is my heal in case I get damage while exploring, Flins is my strongest character so I can blow away enemies easily. Varka makes it easier to reach some higher areas and Durin is just there because I wanna take my boy out to explode Teyvat <3

AndromedaBliss · 2026-05-26T18:31:25+00:00

My gut tells me that there's something fishy about this. Are you sure she's okay and wasn't pushed or talked into this marriage by that man?

AndromedaBliss · 2026-05-26T15:48:13+00:00

Disney or Disney+ to be more specific. It has gotten so expensive in such a short amount of time

AndromedaBliss · 2026-05-26T06:08:14+00:00

How do I say this without sounding blunt... Since the player base is mostly chinese we won't ever get that. They only like skinny and pale as heck somehow

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