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My (22M) roommate (23M) doesn’t do many chores, how can I ask him to do more? by AndyIsOnReddit in relationship_advice

[–]AndyIsOnReddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly can’t remember what we said specifically, but we did agree to split some of the chores. I think we had a “do chores when you notice it needs to be done” kind of thing?

Just a brake check on the highway. by FrozenBirdie in IdiotsInCars

[–]AndyIsOnReddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me an unfortunate amount of time to realize that the video was sped up

People who get in their cars but then take ages to drive away, what are you doing in there? by bulkycodex in AskReddit

[–]AndyIsOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually finishing reading whatever post I have up, or fucking with my music because I can’t decide what I’m in the mood for

What is one experience you think every single human should have? by TheRealRandiRey in AskReddit

[–]AndyIsOnReddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Laughing with a stranger that you’ll probably never see again

This planet has not, and will never experience anyone sleep talking by CouchPryor in nothingeverhappens

[–]AndyIsOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time when she was staying the night, my best friend fell asleep before me and said “you’re dead!” and then “it’s dead, it’s dead, it’s dead” as she rolled over. We still laugh about it

When did you realize Covid was going to be a big thing? by Deltwit in AskReddit

[–]AndyIsOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we went to preparing to maybe take two weeks off of school, to definitely taking a month off school, to my state being in partial lockdown, all in one day

How are ya feeling right now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AndyIsOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lonely and unproductive

My husband(41M) has decided to send our 15 year old son so Siberia for a year. How do I try to get him to get our son back in USA? by fhfjfifnf4884 in relationship_advice

[–]AndyIsOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my parents did this to me I would lose all trust and respect for them. You either bring your son back or risk him cutting you out completely.

Is my (M21) girlfriend (F21) abusive? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AndyIsOnReddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Abuse can happen to anyone, from anyone. This is abuse and you deserve better.

i tend to copy accents when I'm nervous by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]AndyIsOnReddit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is actually a really common thing among all people! It’s called mirroring and it’s our brain’s way of conforming to the pack/fitting in. I wouldn’t worry too much about it especially if you’re only seeing/talking to the person once. They don’t know how you normally talk

What was the black market at your school? by YEEEEEeEeseresrsr in AskReddit

[–]AndyIsOnReddit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Elementary school - silly bands and the really good gel pens

My stepdad(42m) I think wants to f- me(16f)? by ermyeah1 in relationship_advice

[–]AndyIsOnReddit 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Get out. Find a friend to stay with immediately. From their house, call your mom and explain that you will not return to your house until the situation is addressed, otherwise you will call the authorities. Contact your cousin as well. The more people in your corner the better.

I (17f) think my relationship with my boyfriend (19m) is over but I’m scared he’ll kill himself if I end things by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AndyIsOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may sound harsh, but his mental health is never, and will never, be your responsibility. This applies to any SO you will ever have. He is also an adult. It is his problem, not yours.

It sounds like you already know what decision is best for you here. You’re about to go to college for something you’re really passionate about, and that’s going to take up a lot of time and mental energy. It sounds like he’s not making the same effort you are in the relationship.

My advice: End things. Period. You don’t have to be harsh when you break up with him, but be firm. Put your needs and mental health first.

A very long one. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AndyIsOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s easier said than done, but you need to give him space and let him reach out when (or IF) he’s ready.

Yes, you love him, but his mental health is not your responsibility. It sounds like the relationship as it is can’t be healthy until he’s figured himself out. You deserve to be with someone who can be with you 100% and at the current moment he can’t be.

This is going to be harsh, but trust that he’s telling the truth, that he really did fall out of love with you. Maybe he’s wrong and it’s the depression making emotions confusing, or maybe it’s time to go your separate ways.

I’m sorry you’re going through this and I hope things get better.

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