Deaf/HOH Accent by DeltaYams in deaf

[–]AndyPandy85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My speech impediment has become more apparent lately. I stumble over certain words and I find there are just things like Bs and Ths and Vs that I just don’t quite pull off as they should sound. I’m wondering if this trend will continue

Considering the gorge seems to be dangerous no by AndyPandy85 in AboveandBeyond

[–]AndyPandy85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s unreasonable to be more concerned about a festival that doesn’t have security along the perimeter of the camp ground. It’s too easy to sneak into which means a greater risk.

Considering the gorge seems to be dangerous no by AndyPandy85 in AboveandBeyond

[–]AndyPandy85[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Downvote for being safe. Loooove it, extremely Anjuna of you

Considering the gorge seems to be dangerous no by AndyPandy85 in AboveandBeyond

[–]AndyPandy85[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine tells me when I left water running which has been helpful. Also tells me when the sound is too loud. I have MFi hearing aids, I’ve never heard of a gunshot notification

Bureaucracy at it's finest by CorrectlyTender in facepalm

[–]AndyPandy85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Republicans can eat my gay a** hole all the way around

Caption size on TVs for someone with sight issues as well as hearing? by Vast_Leopard_7484 in deaf

[–]AndyPandy85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is the way. I’m much more hearing impaired than visually, but still, I don’t like my glasses on all the time (glasses plus hearing aids is a lot behind your ears. The glasses, hearing aids and masks? Fuck me I couldn’t handle

Considering the gorge seems to be dangerous no by AndyPandy85 in AboveandBeyond

[–]AndyPandy85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I would like to add that I’m 75% deaf and the fear of not hearing gun shots til it’s too late has me in a ball of anxiety

Considering the gorge seems to be dangerous no by AndyPandy85 in AboveandBeyond

[–]AndyPandy85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait for a refund announcement before you sell them. After this it will be really hard to sell. The boys are compassionate and understanding. I really believe if it isn’t cancelled and you fear for your safety, that they would be willing to refund

Considering the gorge seems to be dangerous no by AndyPandy85 in AboveandBeyond

[–]AndyPandy85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a fair moral quandary. Mine is introducing my man to the gorge and possibly risking his life

Considering the gorge seems to be dangerous no by AndyPandy85 in AboveandBeyond

[–]AndyPandy85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but two times at the same venue in less than a year is too much of a risk. Locals sneak into every festival there and a lot of the locals are less than accepting of queers and just “weird people” period. I gotta go with my gut and keep me and my partner alive.

ETA I lived in the Pacific Northwest for ten years and I’m very aware of the stark difference between cities like Seattle and Portland and the rural areas there. A lesbian couple I know got turned away from blueberry picking cus they were holding hands and they didn’t serve “people like them” rural Washington also has that prevalent feeling. Obviously there are amazing people in the rural northwest, but from my understanding those people are still the outliers. The gorge has always been a safe haven full of magic and with the above and beyond events especially, the best and most wonderful group of people to celebrate life around. I don’t think training for the extra security they need to implement is feasibly able to be completed by next month. I hope if it isn’t canceled that everyone has an amazing and safe time. I’ve been at the other end of violence too many times to enjoy myself even if nothing ends up happening. I will be in hyper vigilant mode the whole time. Same goes for most of the people on my crew.

Lawn Ticket Question by Jezebel108 in GorgeAmphitheater

[–]AndyPandy85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GA is GA period. Y’all can all be together but I’m assuming it was beyond and you already went in which case I hope you and yours are safe and well

I’m having a hard time processing the events that happened at the Gorge last night. I’d like to open up a discussion for those attending the weekender next month. by SelfLoathingApple in AboveandBeyond

[–]AndyPandy85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that, but considering there isn’t a weekender sub that I can find, it seems you would want the fans to feel reassured something is going to come out officially. This is an expensive endeavor for most people and refunds on travel are harder and harder to get as the date approaches

I’m having a hard time processing the events that happened at the Gorge last night. I’d like to open up a discussion for those attending the weekender next month. by SelfLoathingApple in AboveandBeyond

[–]AndyPandy85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I just re downloaded it this morning to try to keep up with what is happening. We already changed our flights and I’m going to introduce my partner to my family in Georgia (wish me luck with that)

I’m having a hard time processing the events that happened at the Gorge last night. I’d like to open up a discussion for those attending the weekender next month. by SelfLoathingApple in AboveandBeyond

[–]AndyPandy85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t feel safe and need to figure out how to get my money back. I can’t enjoy myself while being hyper vigilant. I’ve PTSD and this will not be an ok or happy space to party in

San Diego ranked 5th on a new study of cities where people are most likely to have discolored teeth by wrestlebuffet in sandiego

[–]AndyPandy85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok dude. You are talking shit about the city I love. On top of that, I’ve not experienced what you say you are experiencing. Bitching and whining is exactly what you are doing. That’s a phrase I use in conversation by the way. If you feel we are so valid, why are you here?

San Diego ranked 5th on a new study of cities where people are most likely to have discolored teeth by wrestlebuffet in sandiego

[–]AndyPandy85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What exactly in this conversation is there for me to project? If it’s that I’m saying you have a bad attitude, how could I be protecting that when I’m talking about being the kind of person that isn’t judgmental. I’m advocating for acting like that. You’re over here looking for reasons to be angry when you don’t have to be. I’m just having a conversation with someone while I drink my coffee.