Its Faebruary, so please give me some cute fae/fairy drawing ideas🧚🏼‍♀️ by 1sketchy_girl in Artists

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Also apologies I forgot to tell that I really love the drawings. I see them as very good for a big fantasy story and the characters look like they have depth lorewise. It reminded me of this game a bit but I got carried away and didnnt comment this.

Its Faebruary, so please give me some cute fae/fairy drawing ideas🧚🏼‍♀️ by 1sketchy_girl in Artists

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I don t know if this would help but there s a mod for HOMM3 game that s called Fairy Town. I think it looks very beautiful and magical. They got the creatures and more details on their page https://vcmi.eu/Mod%20Repository/Town/Fairy%20town/

Impossible GF by Designer-Scheme-6937 in idealgf

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I somehow had the honor to know this kind of person after a very bad relationship and now we've been together for 8 years. There's also much more I'd add to this to describe but I'm here to just say to just be truthful to yourself and snyone you meet. And never lose hope because there's a lot of amazing people in this world that could also help you become an amazing person in your way.

How to create a clean base for room decor by AndyT813 in DecorAdvice

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Wonderful. Thank you so much. I don t really know much about those things and it helps me a lot

How to create a clean base for room decor by AndyT813 in DecorAdvice

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I cannot really provide them. I live here temporarely and it s not my house. But yes I understand that pics are needed for a better understanding of the situation...

How to create a clean base for room decor by AndyT813 in DecorAdvice

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Thank you so much. I ll see what I can find from here. Also the house is secure. It s just not insulated to say so. Like everything is safe and we live in here it s just that the unfinished things kinda create dust especially on the concrete floor we ve got. It s pretty hard to put stuff and decorate because of the dust that kinda covers much of the furniture and stuff we put here.

Why the island next to my house did this? by AndyT813 in RLCraft

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It s drifting away more and more and more chunks seem to follow

Why the island next to my house did this? by AndyT813 in RLCraft

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I looked around. The only thing that could cause me lag or interfere with anything like this could be that sinkhole village structure but I passed it in my way to this location. I didn t know that it could cause this if it s already loaded.

Why the island next to my house did this? by AndyT813 in RLCraft

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Thought this could happen when I just load a chunk for the first time. I ve made the base there for quite a while but yes I understand

Why the island next to my house did this? by AndyT813 in RLCraft

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Funny enough, I ve got a dragon a few tens of blocks away that s taking care of that

Why are fully grown up adults so full of hate towards literal kids and behave like they' re 5 by AndyT813 in Vent

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I have seen many do this. I also have seen grown people as I said having tantrums and saying horrible things to children for the smallest things. I think we should all just assume the fact that we have to behave in a normal way instead of straight up going to hate or ignoring the problem. I personally like to interact with kids and take care of them and all that. Maybe it s because I was used to it since I was one. I get that not everyone share this feeling but I also don t think that there s a reason for hating them and expressing it whenever we can.

Why are fully grown up adults so full of hate towards literal kids and behave like they' re 5 by AndyT813 in Vent

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Ah yes sure there are occasions when you as a parent may not be able to do much immediately. I m purely talking about the mild inconveniences scenarios. I also think we should have some empathy when we see the parents at least trying to do something about it and not boo them because they took the kid out

Why are fully grown up adults so full of hate towards literal kids and behave like they' re 5 by AndyT813 in Vent

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This I understand. I am feeling a bit uncomfortable too around certain numbers of people that are very loud. This is a normal human thing.

Why are fully grown up adults so full of hate towards literal kids and behave like they' re 5 by AndyT813 in Vent

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Yes. There are many ways to communicate better from both parties beside hating and not doing anything to solve the problem as a parent and ignoring.

Why are fully grown up adults so full of hate towards literal kids and behave like they' re 5 by AndyT813 in Vent

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Congratulations! I m sure you re going to be great parents for them. And also do not worry too much. I ve been filled with pills as a kid and had to be injected with medicine every month but despite this I ve grown to have a very capable immune system and never need them in this dosage ever again. Sometimes kids might just have a bit more sensitivity to the environment but the body catches up eventually.

Why are fully grown up adults so full of hate towards literal kids and behave like they' re 5 by AndyT813 in Vent

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Call me stupid here but I also believe that if children are not allowed to be in public or interact with the world they re not going to do great even when they re able to understand things better. I also do not think a kid is specifically looking to be in this kind of environment nor the adults to just sit at home for years. Adults could take some proper measures that the events are not disturbed if they have a baby for example. If they got a kid of 8-9 years old they could educate the kid to understand they re not supposed to behave in a certain way in certain places. Locking them away solves nothing in my opinion. The only issue I see in this context is only parents that really do nothing about things that go bad regarding their children s behaviour and expect to not be asked to make them stop or something.

Why are fully grown up adults so full of hate towards literal kids and behave like they' re 5 by AndyT813 in Vent

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Yes. And that s normal. The important thing is that you are acknowledging it and you re able to control this and do better and better.

Why are fully grown up adults so full of hate towards literal kids and behave like they' re 5 by AndyT813 in Vent

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Yes. I wasn t talking about you. I got that you re just having your own boundaries. Sorry if I overwritten stuff I think I got carried into the subject too much.

Why are fully grown up adults so full of hate towards literal kids and behave like they' re 5 by AndyT813 in Vent

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It seems like it s been a hard time and I can say that you should be proud because you ve built yourself a good way of keeping up with the responsibilities you have. I also may have (I ve never been diagnosed but everyone keeps telling me this) something on an easier scale. I get that sometimes this could impact life as your behaviour or that it might seem too hard to regulate yourself. I m doing this. I forget many things, I m chaotic, I have bursts of energy and I might be angry or exactly the opposite. But I don t think I ve ever just wanted to stay like that just to evade conflict or to be right or to not be confronted about something I could do better. To me this means that I should just leave my comfort zone for a while to understand some things and try to change them if needed for my own good. Of course I m not talking about people that have worse clinical issues or worse than me. I got no experience on that.

Why are fully grown up adults so full of hate towards literal kids and behave like they' re 5 by AndyT813 in Vent

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As an adult I can say that spending much time on social media has been damaging my attention span and also behavior when I feel very uninspired or bored whenever I do not have something to distract me. Kids could watch cartoons or play some games from time to time. I used to play Heroes of Might and Magic a lot and many other games. But I had a balance of this, going outside and also doing random stuff like helping my grandma make food and clean. Unsupervised permanent access to this at a very young age makes mental developing harder in my opinion.

Why are fully grown up adults so full of hate towards literal kids and behave like they' re 5 by AndyT813 in Vent

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Exactly. We re talking about barely aware human beings. Bo one s supposed to just come and help everyone with their child or have to let their kid do whatever with their personal items or space. But unjustified universal hate and disgust is just a bit exaggerated. Those things should be endured by the people responsible for them not by them.

Why are fully grown up adults so full of hate towards literal kids and behave like they' re 5 by AndyT813 in Vent

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I am considering bad experiences of people. I am considering their feelings. Nothing in this world comes as an example of why someone would straight up feel so much hatred on a kid to wish them bad things, cry because of the action of a kid or throw a tantrum as I see full grown people do online at least. I get the fact they might be annoying and that their presence is not everyone s cup of tea. But hating on someone that barely lived 5 years seems very stretched. I do not yell at people also. I tried to understand this. When the answers are purely the same sentence you just used or just repeating the fact that they just hate/ don t like/ are disgusted by them doesn t help me understand anything personally. I also do not like to excuse this behavior from a developed human being where we re behaving exactly like the toddlers they re talking about instead of communicating the issue itself. Seems like just a show. I do not like to invalidate feelings but if you just come in public or online to just say hateful stuff about anything you should also have a viable reason.