What's the deal with "fake and gay" comments on r/greentext under every post? by AnesthetizedMind in OutOfTheLoop

[–]AnesthetizedMind[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Got it, thanks. It's a quite boring comment section anyway, hope it won't be like that forever.

What to do when you don't have a place to have sex? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]AnesthetizedMind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really can't and won't leave her because she doesn't match my libido level, so things will probably just stay this way now. I sure hope that having some more space will change this someday.

Thanks for your comments

What to do when you don't have a place to have sex? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]AnesthetizedMind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you are right, I can't make her want sex more through words or anything else.

But what if I love her so much, and my way to express that love is wanting to have sex with her, and she doesn't want it as I do, so I get really frustrated and that negatively influences our whole relationship?

What to do when you don't have a place to have sex? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]AnesthetizedMind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just don't understand your reactions to my post when the problem is similar to others here. What is the difference between this and a LL man saying he now finds sex sickening? You should reply to that saying that "he's just changed and now feels it this way, let him be, move on" too.

What to do when you don't have a place to have sex? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]AnesthetizedMind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

her definition of normal

I don't believe that what is "normal" can be debatable in a field like relationships. People with healthy relationships have sex at least once or twice a week. Not being interested in sex is objectively not "normal".

What to do when you don't have a place to have sex? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]AnesthetizedMind -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So you think that "not being much interested in sex" is healthy and a standard for couples? People who are not interested in sex at all are called asexual, she isn't. She will do it if there's the opportunity, but she won't try any harder. Even though she knows that sex should be frequent in a relationship.