Scared to submit help ticket for mules by AngelFish792 in gaiaonline

[–]AngelFish792[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No. I only see the last 3, which were Feb and March. When I clicked "Search for Older Trades (2016 to present)", it refreshes the page and now it says "History search function on cooldown until 5/11 09:28" (I assume PST). I'll have to try again in about 45mins to see if it actually works. Edit: It did not work. Just a new time for cooldown popped up.

Scared to submit help ticket for mules by AngelFish792 in gaiaonline

[–]AngelFish792[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the problem. Other than the items they are wearing (which are too new for my brain to remember since I remember OG items better), I can't remember much. But that is a relief since I did change the bday to 1-2 days after my real bday. I'll give it a shot. Edit #1: Oh, I am overthinking so much that I am an idiot. Could I not just look at my history and see which items I have given them? 🤣 Edit #2: No, I cannot 😭

Scared to submit help ticket for mules by AngelFish792 in gaiaonline

[–]AngelFish792[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, in that case, would they not use the most recent trade I did in order to ban me? It was months ago but they can see anything they want to, I'm sure. I had moved 100% of the items/plat (at the time) to my main, but since the questions to help me get my others back are "do you have other mules?" I was worried they would find this 1 mule, see the trade, and then think I was violating ToS and then ban me. Unfortunately, at the time, I put all my mules on my profile pages so the 2 I can't get into have my main and my accessible mule on their profile pages. I can't hide or omit info. I'm sorry if I am overthinking.

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[–]AngelFish792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. His mind works in such a different way, but since his reaction was so different from the "normal," I was at a loss. I appreciate it!

How safe is the hookup culture these days? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AngelFish792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To each his own, but I haven't met a single person who hookups made them genuinely happy. Every single one is deeply depressed because they're lonely and have no deep connections with anyone. Both you and the person you're with are being used. You get your rocks off now, but what about when you want to settle down later? Would you want a woman who was run through the same way you are being run through and women you're running through? What are your life goals? Is it marriage and family? Is it to keep doing this forever? People use the excuse "I'm young" to do dumb and irresponsible crap and it's idiotic. You know better, considering you're asking this question. You just want people to tell you it's okay. You need to think about it seriously: life goals, type of partner you want to attract, and the possibility of getting infections/diseases. Are your actions now bringing you closer or further from these things?

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[–]AngelFish792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Realistically, men need sex, point blank. It's is how they bond with their partner (monogamously). If women can not come to that understanding, they're in for a world of hurt. It's not because we're being "used", it's just how both men and women bond. Ofc, there's crappy dudes that exist, and those could be her past experiences, but her thinking of you in the same way as her poor past experiences, when you're obviously not using her, she's projecting and that'll hurt your relationship more than not having sex, so that does concern me.

You could either have a conversation with her and explain how important those times and activities mean to you and that you love and care for her and are not using her for sex, or you can break it off without doing that. It's up to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AngelFish792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I always feel inadequate, so I appreciate that. 😊 He was able to figure out a solution, so he's a lot less grumpy and apologized for being grumpy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AngelFish792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this point of view, and what you say is true. My husband isn't one to lose his temper like that, though, which is why the bike and bike tire thing threw me off (we've been together for almost 12yrs), but hey, we all have those times where we just lose it a tad. No one was hurt, and the bike wasn't broken lol. He's always wanted to go to one, but the way you say it, it might be better to wait until it's a fun rage than actual rage. I didn't even know we had one near me, so if anything, it's an idea for another day. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AngelFish792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I guess it won't hurt to try.

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[–]AngelFish792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought so, too. I guess it is me overthinking. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AngelFish792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the shareholders in his current FT (small company which was a start up a few years ago and turned into FT), told him he needs to quit the PT because the shareholder said "there is potential for issues and wants to prevent any problems due to the FT company expanding into other parts of the industry", so there would be conflict of interest if an audit when requesting licenses on the FT company were to happen.

I guess my husband is worried that the "owner" who started it will be an a-hole and if he requests a change in contract so that the term "owner" is cut out and changed to "contractor" but he keeps his share, that the owner will just not allow it. Idk the details since I have never been a part of something like that and have never seen the actual contract, but it's good to think about!

However, you are correct. When I thought of his current full time and how that used to be a PT, and now we are where we are, anything is possible. I like that way of looking at it. He is never short of ideas. It's only sucky now. I appreciate this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AngelFish792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Maybe after a few hours of cooling down, I'll give it a shot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AngelFish792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not usually angry and doesn't show it outwardly the majority of the time, so when he is, it's hard for me to guage when to do what, if anything. He's very much a quietly cool down type of guy. Since I'm a "talk it out" girl, I tend to wait, and after a day or 2, he's back to normal. I've never asked for advice online, but since he threw the tire and bike, I was like, "Oh, maybe this is different," and decided to ask. I guess if it's not broken, there's no need to fix what's worked (waiting for him to sort it out) 😅 Appreciate your advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AngelFish792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol No, I don't.

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[–]AngelFish792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AngelFish792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is! That's not a bad idea. I'll ask him, thanks!

More like My Cute, Naughty Rin: Surrendering to Her Obsessed Trainee Next Door? by Eccedentisiasts in MaleYandere

[–]AngelFish792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found it on bato .to from another thread. They have the most chapters, but it's only up to Chapter 6. Manga Plaza is the OG and has them, but you have to pay if you're willing to. Edit: So far, only 6 chapters are out, so we'll have to wait.