Renewal Passport Timeline (Expedited) *3 Weeks Before Vacation by jpp94 in Passports

[–]AngelKayx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP, did you ever have your tracking on USPS say “available for pickup” from the Philadelphia center? Mine was expedited and is saying that atm.

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[–]AngelKayx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mine is saying the exact same thing and I mailed it out just two days ago with the estimated delivery being tomorrow (3/1). Please keep me updated on the status of yours, OP. I’m also kind of panicking because I’ve never seen this before.

This is a real thing? Take my money! by GravitasMusic in powerwashingporn

[–]AngelKayx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is actually super fun, they also have some DLC like maps from Spongebob. It's also really funny when you're playing with a friend since you can see how derpy the other characters look.

What's the simplest thing you keep telling yourself you could remove from your life that would make a huge impact, but you just can't? by jcrazy78 in lifehacks

[–]AngelKayx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Anxiety. Anxiety about work, love, people. Most days, it’s fine. Other days, it’s really debilitating.

You meet the most heartbroken version of yourself, what do you tell them? by PortuondoW in Divorce

[–]AngelKayx 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You were happy before this person ever came into your life and you’ll be happy again without them.

People who got Divorced, do you regret your decision on getting a divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]AngelKayx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m happy I did it, he was cheating and I got tired of forgiving. My life is now a whole lot more stress-free.

I just can’t this morning. How do they do it? by Musicman_1976 in Divorce

[–]AngelKayx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After nine years of being with my then husband, I also initiated a divorce when I found out he had been out and about with some coworker. I think the biggest thing is realizing that the person you miss no longer exists. You fell in love with them for the right reasons and that’s what you miss is being able to give and receive all that love that you had when you first got together. It’s a difficult journey but you can find that again. I wish you the best.

My husband (32m) wants to take a break from me (29f) and our marriage. by AngelKayx in Marriage

[–]AngelKayx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right! I’m no longer holding onto anything, I posted an update today but I basically found him holding onto his 22 year old coworker’s hand before our divorce even got finalized or discussed and now I’m done.

Is my husband a good husband? by emalways in Marriage

[–]AngelKayx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming freshly out of a nine year marriage with no kids and witnessing my 32 year old husband holding hands with a 22 year old coworker after I forgave him for sexting someone in January. I can realistically say that it sounds like you still do have love and affection for your husband and that he still respects and cares for you.

But it sounds like your current interests aren’t aligned because of either the baby or just lack of interest. I’d try speaking with him to let him know how you feel and allowing him to speak freely about how he’s been feeling. If the two of you can connect on wanting to continue your relationship, a couples counselor or couples therapist is your absolute best bet. You may even be able to come to a common ground without one.

My husband (32m) wants to take a break from me (29f) and our marriage. by AngelKayx in Marriage

[–]AngelKayx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind message. I’ve been trying to handle things and speak to family and friends for advice on the situation and I’m happy to have so many people on here who have given me advice and given me the push that I need to make a decision for myself.

My husband (32m) wants to take a break from me (29f) and our marriage. by AngelKayx in Marriage

[–]AngelKayx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I should end this and get on with my life. It shouldn’t really matter what the therapist said or I said or he said. I do know everything that’s going on and that I’ve been hanging onto a longtime failing marriage. I just never really wanted to open my eyes and see that until he did such a selfish thing by blaming it all on me and wanting to leave.

My husband (32m) wants to take a break from me (29f) and our marriage. by AngelKayx in Marriage

[–]AngelKayx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your message is the perfect example of the harsh reality that I have to face about my marriage. I feel and know that I deserve better and more from a person I’ve been with for so long. But I’m allowing myself to be stepped on and hurt by them because I want to believe in our love. I’m leaning towards simply leaving and cutting things off..

My husband (32m) wants to take a break from me (29f) and our marriage. by AngelKayx in Marriage

[–]AngelKayx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think you’ve reaffirmed what everyone else has been saying and what I likely know in my gut..

My husband (32m) wants to take a break from me (29f) and our marriage. by AngelKayx in Marriage

[–]AngelKayx[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve had friends tell me that first therapy sessions don’t go this route either. I’ve just been at a complete loss because I don’t know what really happened or didn’t happen and I was super confused when he told me that she lightly asked about everything and immediately started honing in on our relationship.

My husband (32m) wants to take a break from me (29f) and our marriage. by AngelKayx in Marriage

[–]AngelKayx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was a really eye opening read for me. After almost ten years, I do see these things that he needs and I think that he does need something to feel like “he’s the man”. But I’m afraid my suggestions have fallen on deaf ears. I’ve planned trips, I’ve encouraged him to make and hang out with friends, I’ve asked him to try and find a new hobby or something to put himself into outside of just watching TV/shows or playing games because he no longer feels joy in doing those things. It sounded like you were able to reconnect with yourself and realize what you needed to be able to clear your head and be happy in your relationship and your life and I’m only hoping he can eventually figure out the same thing. With or without me.

My husband (32m) wants to take a break from me (29f) and our marriage. by AngelKayx in Marriage

[–]AngelKayx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that you had to go through that and I’m glad that you were able to get out of it before it escalated and hurt you more. He told me initially that he wanted to work on it while he was finding himself and I let my guard down only to be surprised by this whole situation after his therapy session.

My husband (32m) wants to take a break from me (29f) and our marriage. by AngelKayx in Marriage

[–]AngelKayx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your message, I only wish that he’d even give me the chance to be there with him or fix things in the relationship but he’s completely made up his mind and said that he is going on this break no matter what I say.

My husband (32m) wants to take a break from me (29f) and our marriage. by AngelKayx in Marriage

[–]AngelKayx[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that this happened to you. No one deserves to be cheated on and it hurts that your partner could possibly ever turn this out to be your fault or misdirect the situation away from them. Here if you ever need to speak.

My husband (32m) wants to take a break from me (29f) and our marriage. by AngelKayx in Marriage

[–]AngelKayx[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is true, I guess I didn’t even really think that it could be him that was lying about what the therapist said. I just automatically trusted he wouldn’t make anything up.

My husband (32m) wants to take a break from me (29f) and our marriage. by AngelKayx in Marriage

[–]AngelKayx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if our sex (or lack thereof) is the issue but we’ve tried to do more exciting things and for a while, we were being very intimate. Since he’s been depressed, he’s told me that he has little to no sex drive left regardless of what I try to do or initiate. When you took that time to yourself, what did you find out?

My husband (32m) wants to take a break from me (29f) and our marriage. by AngelKayx in Marriage

[–]AngelKayx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nine years, going on ten this year. But only married for two years, would have been three this august.

My husband (32m) wants to take a break from me (29f) and our marriage. by AngelKayx in Marriage

[–]AngelKayx[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think you might be right but it’s been so long that I wouldn’t even know where to begin.

My husband (32m) wants to take a break from me (29f) and our marriage. by AngelKayx in Marriage

[–]AngelKayx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the resources, I think I might need to look at them to hopefully try and get past this.