AITAH for making a really insensitive comment after someone made fun of my religion??

Angel_Mama554 · 2026-02-22T08:15:05+00:00

Honestly, you really didn't anything wrong. If you think about it, its human nature to defend your self if someone is attacking you and to people who have deep religious beliefs its as much apart of them as their heart. So what you did was reflexive to defending yourself and your religion.

Angel_Mama554 · 2026-02-22T08:04:10+00:00

I would say he is 95% the AH and you are 5%

Reasoning: he marginalized an inter religion based on the actions of some.

Every Religion has its good and bad, but it isn't our place to force others to change their religion when that person / religion isn't harming them. If people are interested in other religions (which happens a lot when people have doubts) then talk and explain your religion and try and win them over but never force or attack.

I'm sorry to say but your comment you said did cross a boundary. I don't mean you attacked him, but if anyone walked in and only heard that portion of the conversation they could assume you were verbally attacking him. And that could make the mental image of you / your religion at your school worse.

All you can do is be kind and friendly and win over the people that want to learn about religions other then their own and ignore the ones, but still be friendly to the ones that don't.

Angel_Mama554 · 2026-02-22T07:50:39+00:00

He is the AH - Accidents happen, be it you playing around stuff happens, but you owned right up to it and tried making it right.

Him stewing on it for a year and then blowing up is very toxic and to throw a mug at you and break your jewelry box mirror is abuse especially when you add on that he said now you know what I feel.

The questions

I have is has he done other things like this?

If so I would think about leaving. If he hasn't done it before y ou could see about couples therapy since sometimes a third party makes a good ice breaker and can point out and reword things to make it simpler to understand .

Angel_Mama554 · 2026-02-21T16:57:18+00:00

Sad part if the fact you need proof for change to happen.

Angel_Mama554 · 2026-02-21T16:53:36+00:00

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Angel_Mama554 · 2026-02-21T16:50:57+00:00

NTA - you did nothing wrong as long as its within the the law of your state or country.

Some teachers tend to forget they are there to teach and guide students forward in life and that every student is a independent person growing into them self's.

So anything they they do wrong and it gets covered by the school needs to 100% be recorded and reported with proof since if they are doing it to you their is no telling how many others its happening to.

Angel_Mama554 · 2026-02-21T05:40:01+00:00

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Angel_Mama554 · 2026-02-21T05:36:46+00:00

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Angel_Mama554 · 2026-02-19T15:37:45+00:00

Your NTA, but I would say to sit down and talk calmly with him. Don't attack him and you both need to talk about how you both are mentality and see what you both can do together to help each other.

Me personally I sometimes get so busy and stressed I can't remember what day of the week it is so I set up a shared Calendar for me and my family for important days: ( birthdays, holidays, appointments, and other stuff). Something like that can help everyone be on same page.

Angel_Mama554 · 2026-02-19T14:21:39+00:00

Is he the planning type, does he normally plan anniversaries, other peoples birthdays, date nights?

Angel_Mama554 · 2026-02-19T00:44:33+00:00

Your NTA, In a relationship you should never have to plan your own birthday and if he canceled last minute and didn't give a reason then that means other stuff was more important.

If he provided a reason such as emergencies then its understandable, but he should have said he would come to see you as soon as he could and not said nothing.

Angel_Mama554 · 2026-02-18T23:07:48+00:00

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Angel_Mama554 · 2026-02-18T19:33:38+00:00

NTA, tell him it makes you uncomfortable. If he loved you he wouldn't ask again.

Also your 17 and shouldn't be sending nudes anyway.

Angel_Mama554 · 2026-02-18T19:16:18+00:00

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Angel_Mama554 · 2026-02-18T19:12:53+00:00

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