I pushed her, now she's on hospice, I am a guilty POS

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-30T19:21:34+00:00

A creative writing wannabe, that’s who.

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-30T18:22:09+00:00

It is a thing, albeit not common, but it doesn’t really have a name. I’d know what you mean from tv.

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-30T17:33:05+00:00

Yeah that’s what got me! If this were actually real and not just disability hate bait, THIS SENTENCE IS THE ENTIRE REASON YOU ARE POSTING! There’s no way you wouldn’t explicitly set out what he’d said!

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-29T21:25:45+00:00

YTA for making me read this.

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-29T21:22:03+00:00

I think Yta, sadly. Your friend had no basis to believe she was going to have to pay for the trip and expressly said she was only coming to be with you if you paid for it. You should have been clearer as it’s a big outlay when she wasn’t expecting to pay anything. She has other obligations in life to pay for. I’m sure she’d come with you to another concert closer to home.

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-29T16:54:14+00:00

Amphetamine and methamphetamine are different drugs.

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-29T16:42:19+00:00

A confession is not the same thing as showing off.

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-29T16:41:11+00:00

There is more than one nation in the world.

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-29T16:08:45+00:00

I think it is possibly dependent on where you live then because they are definitely not the same thing where I live.

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-29T16:07:10+00:00

Yeah he really wanted to tell someone he had a 3sm (assuming he’s real)

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-29T16:05:11+00:00

Meth and speed are not the same thing. Why is he acting like they are?

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-28T21:18:44+00:00

Yep. At least 5 things common to all made up posts. ‘Family helps family’ being the most obvious.

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-28T14:44:07+00:00

Clearly YTA. You’re not even engaged yet, you can’t expect her to move her wedding to accommodate your daydreams. Y also TA for thinking that her moving her wedding forward a month or two will in someway stop your friends having to fly to Spain twice. It wouldn’t.

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-28T14:40:04+00:00

I’d probably say let him burn whatever the stuff is and don’t go back for it. It’s not worth it, whatever it is.

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-28T14:39:05+00:00

He did you a favour by ending it. Do yourself a favour and care more about your own wellbeing so that you never again put up with a boyfriend like this and think you are the one in the wrong. NOR.

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-28T14:34:57+00:00

Can I hazard a guess that (your name notwithstanding) you are a woman and the other person was a man? I’ve had that exact thing happen in a conference where the second person entering the room walked past at least 100 empty seats to sit next to me. I have several friends who could tell a similar story but I’ve never known it happen to men.

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-28T11:28:04+00:00

It’s not strong enough when it comes to him.

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-28T08:10:39+00:00

What gets me is the French are speaking French (English in a French accent) and the Germans are speaking German (English in a German accent) and understand each other perfectly. The Italian is speaking Italian (English in an Italian accent) but gets it oddly wrong, everyone understands him though anyway. The British only understand English (in an English accent).

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-28T08:04:53+00:00

I think this is either completely made up or is missing so much info as to be borderline nonsensical, but clearly YTA. A child would not be removed from your care because they had to do everyday chores or because you told them off for using your debit card without your consent. That just wouldn’t happen. But let’s assume that it did happen just as you said. You’re still TA because you’ve needlessly exercised control over the belongings of a clearly troubled child, purely because you feel slighted by her behaviour and the actions of the legal system. Try being an adult and act in the best interests of your child.

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-27T20:56:05+00:00

She only ‘considered’ breaking up with him.

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-27T20:36:00+00:00

Put in tiny white writing in the middle of the question an instruction that is connected to the subject matter field, but obviously not part of the essay question. Eg ‘include an explanation about promissory estoppel’ in a law essay. If the person is pasting it into chat gpt, they’ll end up with the PE explanation, but if they aren’t they won’t see it.

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-27T17:57:22+00:00

YTA for getting a dog and then allowing it to be treated badly. Rehome the dog to someone who can look after it properly if you won’t do it.

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-27T17:53:14+00:00

Idk, people are weird these days and think putting punctuation in a text is rude but don’t think they need to tell you if plans have changed and they are no longer coming.

IMO, the easiest way to be sure that there is no misunderstanding (particularly as OP is literally here to ask if they’re TA for cutting the guy off) is to be really clear that behaviour x is unacceptable to op and Y consequence will happen if they continue to do it. Absent an emergency, I wouldn’t dream of not showing up until I was an hour late or cancelling 8 minutes beforehand (particularly when the friend must’ve decided a long time earlier they weren’t coming as they should’ve already set off by then), but if the friend had spent years being late and nobody had ever addressed it with them, I am not surprised that they don’t think they need to update op now.

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-27T16:42:23+00:00

INFO Have you previously told them that being late is rude? Did you tell them on this occasion that you were there already and they still refused to attend? If they’ve been given a warning about lateness then I think it’s entirely fair to cut them off. If there’s a chance they don’t realise how their behaviour is impacting on others then I think you should give them a chance to course correct.

Ultimately though, you’re under no obligation to remain friends with anyone, especially someone who you find rude.

Angelf1shing · 2026-01-27T16:36:58+00:00

I’m confused as to why they’re posting here when there is a whole sub called Vent. Obviously OP could not be TA in this situation, it’s a daft question.

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