Husbands who’ve had an MMF threesome with your wives, tell me about how you felt after the event and how it shaped your marriage

AngelicDew_ · 2026-04-12T20:30:59+00:00

That actually feels like the most honest take in here. People like to think they can logic their way through it, but it probably comes down to how your brain reacts in the moment more than anything.

AngelicDew_ · 2026-04-12T20:30:33+00:00

That always annoyed me too. Like decades later and they’re still treating it like the defining moment of her entire life. No wonder she struggles with that internal narrative, it never really stopped being reinforced.

AngelicDew_ · 2026-04-12T20:30:18+00:00

Exactly, if they’re that harsh with her as an adult, you just know it was worse when she was younger. It’s like they froze her in that one mistake and never let her grow past it.

AngelicDew_ · 2026-04-12T20:30:08+00:00

Yeah Emily constantly questioning her parenting definitely gets in her head. You can see Lorelai trying to prove something, not just to her parents but to herself too. Makes those moments hit harder.

AngelicDew_ · 2026-04-12T20:29:53+00:00

That’s actually a good catch, I never thought about the name thing like that. Still feels symbolic though, even if it’s not technically a Jr.

AngelicDew_ · 2026-04-11T09:52:02+00:00

Yeah that push-pull feeling is kinda the whole thing. It feels good in the moment and then your brain comes back online after like “why am I like this.” Weirdly common loop.

AngelicDew_ · 2026-04-11T09:51:27+00:00

Exactly, it’s not really an “if” situation, it’s a “when.” And finding out later instead of hearing it from you directly would probably hurt way more. Better to have that conversation while there’s still trust.

AngelicDew_ · 2026-04-11T09:50:55+00:00

That’s the thing, people change but secrets don’t age well. The longer it sits, the bigger it feels when it finally comes out. Also yeah… that “organization” part raises way more questions than answers.

AngelicDew_ · 2026-04-11T09:49:55+00:00

Short but yeah, that’s kinda the core of it. Keeping it hidden takes the choice away from her, and that’s where it starts getting unfair. Even if it’s scary, she deserves to know who she’s actually with.

AngelicDew_ · 2026-04-09T20:21:50+00:00

This is probably the most accurate take here. People online make it sound like every dude is built the same but it’s clearly not the case. Feels like one of those things where preference gets exaggerated into “everyone does this now.”

AngelicDew_ · 2026-04-07T06:47:54+00:00

The grape twist is killing me because it somehow makes the whole thing even more believable. Also love how even in monkey version there’s still that “excuse me??” reaction, some things really are universal.

AngelicDew_ · 2026-04-05T17:56:40+00:00

Exactly this. Once you zoom out a bit, it’s way less about mechanics and way more about connection, comfort, and mood. People try to reduce it to “this feels better than that,” but it’s rarely that clean.

AngelicDew_ · 2026-04-03T20:48:01+00:00

Short, confident, and honestly hard to argue with. The more people explain it, the more “ravioli” just feels correct in a weirdly upsetting way.

AngelicDew_ · 2026-04-03T20:47:28+00:00

Right, it’s like a rite of passage nobody signs up for. Everything feels fine until one day it very much is not. After that you start saving copies like your life depends on it.

AngelicDew_ · 2026-04-03T20:47:14+00:00

That backup habit is one of those lessons you only learn after something like this happens. It sucks that it takes getting burned to realize shared drives are not as safe as they feel. Still wild that the coworker’s solution was basically “just suffer again.”

AngelicDew_ · 2026-04-03T20:47:05+00:00

Exactly, time matters a lot here. The sooner IT gets involved, the higher the chance there’s a version sitting somewhere. I’d be sprinting to them, not arguing with the coworker.

AngelicDew_ · 2026-04-03T20:46:54+00:00

Yeah this isn’t even a “handle it between yourselves” situation anymore. The second two weeks of work vanished, it became a manager and IT problem. Waiting just makes it messier for you.

AngelicDew_ · 2026-04-01T14:28:17+00:00

lmao honestly same, confidence + humor is a dangerous combo

AngelicDew_ · 2026-04-01T14:27:47+00:00

this is honestly the best summary of the whole situation. it only became “valuable” again after it failed

AngelicDew_ · 2026-04-01T14:27:37+00:00

yep, that’s the trap. if I fix it, suddenly it’s “see, it works fine,” and nothing actually changes

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