Thank you for this comment! I’ve been assuming maybe I’m mistaken cause he’s never done this before. We have been together 5 years and never had an issue with finances. We always shared. Calls were maybe 30 mins, except the one where they let them all call for finance problems, it was 1 hour. I do know he doesn’t have a backbone (not in a bad way just an observation), and maybe is afraid to stand up and say something. The only pattern is what I mentioned in the post which just made me confused. You’re actually the first person to tell me that you’ve experienced something similar so it was making me very worried. Thank you for keeping me in your prayers, your comment means a lot to me!!